He watches porn and I caught him?

[missanna22]

So I'm 8 months pregnant and unfortunately I'm not allowed to have sex until after the baby. Means it's been awhile since my fiancé and I got down and dirty, July was the last time tbh. He's very understanding of the situation and he's been patient and loving. Recently on our iPad I found some porn sites he forgot to close I guess and I guess he has been watching porn during this time.

How would you feel about it if you caught your boyfriend/fiance/husband watching porn?

I mean I understand his situation, a guy has needs and 6 months are a long time. I'm not angry or upset, I'm just kinda confused and I don't know how to feel about it to be honest.
I rather have him watch this and taking care of himself like this than to go out and get it somewhere else...

[Anonymous]

I will go anon for this one. I have a huge online presence and even on here, I have helped many with problems with horn dogs (Not saying your man) who have an obsession with porn, Instagram models, just anything with two legs and a big butt and fake boobs. And it is degrading to them and makes them feel less like a real woman. I don't blame them. I would probably be hurt. A man can satisfy himself (I don't like it even for a woman) without having to get off on that stuff. Just hope he doesn't make this a dirrty habit after the baby is born. Bad habits are hard to break and many men will find lame dick excuses to keep it looking and lurking. Talk to him. You are being a good sport so you know. Good luck and God bless your new REAL BABES IN TOY LAND.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank ux

[Bee-Hatch]

I don't get why you can't have sex. I won't hurt the baby and can be a lot of fun. Plus it can help induce labor when the times right.


That aside, you can't be so oblivious as to think men don't use porn. Sweetheart, he's not had sex in months, he's not out cheating, and he's taking care of business. You should be proud you've got a man that's standing by you and not straying, despite months without sex.


One more thing, stop using words like "caught" that implies he's done something wrong, he really hasn't.

[missanna22]

Im definitely not complaining, just curious to see what other people have to say about this and trust me, im so happy that he chooses porn over some hoes out there and yes its been 6 months already, we got just one more to go, that's a long time especially for men but I miss it too. I cannot wait to jump at him when he doc gives his ok soon. I've had risky pregnancy due to a miscarriage 2 years ago.

[JackSmy]

Why are you 'not allowed' to have sex? I have known several female friends, and they were CRAVING sex, in their last few months!
If you aren't allowed vaginal penetration, for some medical reason, why can't you both play, in an non-penetrating way?
Why can't he go down, and love you, orally?
Maybe you, too, going down on him?
Does he have some 'issues' or is he not aroused by you, being pregnant?
I think pregnant women are the most beautiful, EVER, well, until seeing her holding, and nursing her baby. . .

[Derekk]

Have you guys had any other kind of intimacy during the time you've been pregnant? Even if it's just using your hands and him helping you out too if you need it. Personally if I was him, I'd tell you upfront that I wanted to watch something and not keep it hidden.

[missanna22]

Yes, we do other things and we cuddle a lot too, like we actually got even closer during this time. I man yes the sex is missing, I miss it too but he was the one to say 'okay, lets wait until the baby is here, I don't want anything bad to happen.'

[Derekk]

He might have bit off more than he could chew with that comment lol. Unless he plans to cut his own balls off, he's gonna have a pretty strong urge to keep getting some kind of release.

[missanna22]

I think so too lol. But oh well, the wait is almost over. One more month to go and I mean I definitely miss it too and I absolutely cannot wait to jump at him again lol the last few weeks are pretty dragging. I think he feels the same way lol

[AustinMan]

What's to be confused about? He's horny as hell and you're temporarily out of commission.

[Wise4myage]

lol. So true.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I would find it normal, even if we did have sex.
Why aren't you allowed to have sex though?

As long as it doesn't get in the way of sex together, there's nothing wrong with him watching porn. (as long as it isn't illegal stuff and the like)

[missanna22]

My pregnancy is a little risky that's why the doctor said to wait with the sex after the baby. He's really excited to become a dad and we also talked about this and he said it himself, he doesn't want anything bad to happen so we should wait. I was surprised he was so okay with it and is coping so well with the whole o sex situation. Its even getting tough on me lol but the wait is almost over lol Before I got pregnant, it never got in the way of our sex life. I don't even think he was watching it back then

[GiventoFly01]

If it were me in that situation, I would try to include my significant other if I felt I couldn't wait any longer. I am not really big into porn though, my turn ons are pretty G rated and boring. Both things, a pregnant girl could help with.

[Stellaluna84]

Like you said - it’s better than him cheating... but maybe you could try to pleasure him in other ways if you’re in the mood? Maybe a blowjob or a handjob?

[Alyssa11]

I wouldn't feel so bad.

[kyliesz]

It really depends on if you're okay with it or not. Some people are okay with it some people are not and its your choice. Personally I really wouldn’t care if my boyfriend watches porn I think majority of the people watch porn

[Gwenhwyfar]

Nothing wrong with him watching porn

he can still lick you even at 8 months

[Neko911]

Why can't you uave sex? Pregnant women are still able to and actually encouraged to while pregnant. And why wpuld I care if my guy watched porn? It's a normal thing... I'm not a teen... I understand men masturbate and use porn. It's nothing 2 get upset over... So I don't see why you'd even need 2 ask a question about this or be confused on how 2 feel

[bowenw]

Even if you weren't pregnant, porn could simply be an escape for him, a way to have a life separate from the relationship, or be a supplement to his sex life. Of course, he could be a porn addict in which case he may benefit from counselling. He may also be interested in watching porn with you. If you're up to it, give him a handjob or BJ while watching, or masturbate together.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

If you feel unconfortable try to give him some handjob or blowjob.

Personal if my girlfriend will watch porn on my back i will be very excited and love it.
I will probably talk to her and ask what kinde porn she watch, if she have some fantazy from the porn and so many other questions.
I will olso tell her is no need to hide herself and she can do that when ever she feel the need.

[dutch69lover]

Watch some with him and maybe stroke him off while he watches... me and my wife did this late into her pregnancy. We still watch porn together and other activites

[Titanic1912]

If he can’t stick his penis in your vagina while pregnant, he can still caress your breasts, rub your butt and touch you in sexual ways with out sex. Why don’t you encourage him to do foreplay with you until you have the baby.

[okeydoke]

Porn really isn’t a big deal at all. And masturbation isn’t cheating.

[DiversityHire]

Almost all men, no matter their relationship status, look at porn to one extent or another. Unless it interferes with your sex life I would not be too concerned about it.

[Wise4myage]

You don't understand his situation or you wouldn't have to ask this question. Are you at least giving him head? Why not watch some porn together?

[Dave31989]

actually there's supposedly proof that you can have sex, while pregnant, and you'd be ok

and in fact, it helps push the baby along (comes out quicker), obviously you don't want premature baby but, if it starts to be 9 months and it should be due date and it sill hasn't, they will recommend to you, sex

[shanshu]

Who says you can't have sex, course you can have sex when your pregnant, even up to the point before your water breaks

[bklynbadboy1]

First off I want to say congratulations!!! If I was your I wouldn't worry much about that its just porn at least he's not cheating. Once again I just want to say CONGRATULATIONS!!!

[In_Trance]

I don't see where you're confused

[Valnac]

Well if he’s cut of from having sex with you, he might be better off masturbating to porn, rather than finding it elsewhere.