Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Hi everyone I am so horny that I can not stand anymore what should I do?
Anonymous
I am Virgin even at the age of 26. I haven’t had any boyfriend because i am shy. I want to have sex i am not ugly person. Do you think would it be helpful if i talk to someone on Tinder then have sex? Because of my high libido i have some hard times often in my life. I tried to Sexting but it is not enough.
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Do you know anyone who lose their virginity by finding someone on Tinder?
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What Girls & Guys Said
4 34Look, I know how that feels, I was a virgin too of course lol. The reality is that the first shag will most likely be disappointing, particularly if it’s casual sex. What I’d recommend you is to find someone interested in having a friends with benefits type relationship. If you do that maybe the first couple of times it’ll be just ok, but you’ll learn and he’ll learn what you like, that’s when the good stuff happens. I have nothing against ONS type things, I do it all the time. But for your situation I don’t think that’s wise.
Be careful, there are some bad apples out there. talk to a mature woman.
Understandable feeling.
Mr, Steve, you can solve her problem
Come over lol
Your probably not going to like what guys you find on tinder.
Your looking for a quality, real, long term boyfriend who will take care of your horny needs, not just a one night random right?
That's not the best way to lose your virginity anyway.
Of course but my priority is what you say second. But sometimes i feel horny and that’s why i want to relieve myself by just having sex i wonder about it and want it.
Like a friends with benefits until you find a longterm boyfriend? Even for friends with benefits I don't think tinder is the best place for it.
Masturbate
It is not enough anymore i need human touch
I could help you if you are nearby lol
Sext
Till marriage
Best of luck
you need a man who will be kind to you
Yeah i know of course
the purpose of tinder is easy sex. your need a patient and kind man
I know but i do not know How to find him
don't you have a guy you like?
Yeah that will work, I wish I could be that guy , never had a virgin or a horny one at that
Losing virginity on tinder of all places sounds trashy and might ruin chance of future relationships with certain people but as long as you're not harming anybody I don't think it's bad or anything. Is there a guy you like? Join a walking club or something and find a boyfriend. Guys respect girls who approach them openly so even if you're not his type he knows approaching makes you a quality girl and can help you find good guys
Everyone does this… and they are happy and have relationships right now. Sex is a need of the body you know. Of course i want to have a relationship but it is not easy to find someone you love. I just thought if i can do even one time maybe i can ease my horniness. This is so frustrating feeling.
The frustration is understandable. Some do get into relationships but unfortunately tinder has a reputation of just casual sex for those who hate relationships. I don't really agree with it but I still don't have tinder because having that in my app download history could potentially ruin my chance of getting sex from the girls I know who hate that stuff. Maybe it may ease it for a moment but it will come back or he may not be sexually compatible and that might make you even more frustrated even behind step one Honestly I think the advantage of meeting people outside is you can see how they are better than if they were just online. Online and speed dating are literally the only types of dating I don't do but I do everything else. Cool thing about being a girl is they get sex much easier so I recommend going out with friends just doing anything. Events like concerts fairs, adult swim classes or sports, the possibilities are endless I wish you good luck and avoid abusive guys
you say you haven't had any boyfriend because you're shy, I'm shocked that would keep you single because obviously that's going to have a different effect on women's dating lives than men's dating lives, be glad that as a woman you have the luxury you're not expected to hit on guys or approach guys or pursue them, and even if a guy has gotten a rid of a lot of his shyness, he can still easily remain perpetually single and celibate if his social skills are below average.
I never liked it but it'll never change and that is it seems a man's social skills impact his ability to attract women or to get laid a lot more than the other way around
It is not always like that. For example i had guys that i liked. But when they tried to talk to me i could not talk with them clearly because of my shyness. Or i can not say my feelings to a man that i like. So, i have difficulty in both dating and sex life too. Of course i want to be loved and have a relationship but sometimes i feel so horny that i just focus on my sexual needs. That’s why i feel bad.
What do you mean it's not always like that?
I mean shy girls have difficulty in dating life too. I have many shy friends like me and they haven’t had boyfriend too. The extrovert people are always good at dating male or female.
Yeah but girls are not expected to pursue like guys are, like I specifically mentioned
Yeah, i agree with that.
Yeah so that's why it's more shocking when I hear of a girl reaching a certain age and she's never dated anyone before