I’m female. My boyfriend is a switch, and I am as well, but I find that I’m better at submitting than domming. He likes to be degraded, restrained, and praised. What are some things that I can do that he might like? I’ve run out of ideas, I’ve asked him and he just says to do whatever makes me happy. Help?
If you’re not going to be dominant physically, you have to convey your dominance in other ways. Language is one of the best examples. Tell your partner what you want, directly, with no apologies or explanations. Use a clear, firm voice.
Another simple way to dominate your partner is to initiate sex when you want it. After all, there’s nothing more dominant than stating what you want, with confidence. This is also easy to do in the moment without any planning — just grab your partner and say, “Get into the bedroom right now.” (If you want to be really bossy, try saying, “I won’t take no for an answer” — though of course, this will only work for couples who have had conversations about boundaries and consent, and who have a safe word.)
If your partner doesn’t obey your directions, you may want to punish them. Most people think of whips and paddles when they hear the word punishment, but you can be much tamer if you’d like. For example, if your partner does something they’re not supposed to do, you could stop touching them, move your body away from them, or put some of your clothes back on.
Sex positions can be another great way to play around with dominance. You don’t need to physically overpower your partner when you’re dominating them, but plenty of positions let you be in control of the movement. Try cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. If your partner starts trying to take the lead, stop and say, “No, I’m in control here. You be still.” Another idea: Have your partner lie flat on their back and straddle their face. Talk about a power move.
Another hot way to be dominant is to take control of your partner’s orgasmic timing. You can go down on them, and once you feel them starting to get close, stop. Say something like, “I don’t think I’m going to let you do that just yet.” Then take a break and give them a few minutes to cool off. Repeat as many times as you dare.
Have fun. Hope it helps.
Next time you are going to have sex. Splay your fingers against his chest to "hold him off" and say he has to pleasure his mistress for her to give him a gift. Then while he pleases you, give him a little bit more every time but never fully giving it up until you feel that you've degraded him enough. For example maybe force hm to stay clothed and just touch him outside his pants, then undwear, then bare skin but never let him decide what happens, and only do that as a reward for him pleasuring you.
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Sex should be for after marriage. I’m so sick of these degenerate ass questions. Good gosh. A relationship should be about love. Not all this messed up shit.
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Grab his erect penis with a death grip squeezing as tight as you can and say, your penis is mine and I’m going to do with it as i please.
1. Spit on your boobs and ask him to suck it.
2. Sit on his face and rub it till you're done. Tell him "Lick my pussy you fucking bitch"
3. Bite his dick , spit and jerk roughly.
Text other guys while he's tied up, snap them, let them see your tits. Compare the dick pics they send to the pathetic little one he's got.
You female so you Domme not dom hon, make him eat his own semen, or better still brush his teeth with it, pee in his mouth, make him wear a chastity device, I have experienced all three, and more stuff, I would highly reccomennd!
You'd have to ask your boyfriend this
do that but not only in sexual way
you can try to order him around , like , tell him to clean your room , or , wash your clothes , clean your dishes , etc
Maybe you should watch porn with him and see what you’re both into?
ask other men online to send you dick pic, show them to him, make him realize how bigger they are, it will make him rocking hard, guaranteed.
Find out where his job is and, while he’s on the clock, just walk right up to him and slap him right across the face and whip him on the buttocks once or twice and the state very loudly that his buttocks is yours.
This will work very well if he works in an office and things are quiet and professional. It also works well if he’s working a minimum wage job like if that happened at Starbucks while everyone is waiting on their macchiato and Frappuccino.
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If he like it so...
I think you may try to rope his hands and slap his body
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