How can I force myself to feel sexual desire for another man?

I feel it only for one person. He is not with me. I've tried to pressure myself to go on dates with men I find attractive but when they try to take it to the next level I don't allow them to get closer to me. The idea of being touched makes me sick in the stomach.

I feel enormous and wild urge for one person only whom I love like crazy.

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  • Just wait until marriage

  • You can't

  • Either you get drugged or you simply can't if you don't feel it naturally

  • I feel the same way about a woman but she doesn’t feel the same way about me:(

  • Why are you dating when you love someone else? I don't understand why you are doing this.

    • She’s not taken

    • @Sasha0426 but she’s going into dates knowing nothing will happen because she still thinks of someone else

    • @Tim2nice I totally read his question wrong. Anyway, that’s the thing about going on dates, isn’t it? Go out with someone and maybe something will blossom between the two of you. These are casual dates it sounds like.

  • You need someone like me, mrpoopybutthole, the sexiest man alive..

    Jokes aside, I find it very unique that you don't make love just to do it. You would be a great partner and mom. Just wait for the right person that you would attracted to. It's sounds like not normal to you because of the slut society, but you are completely fine and having a manner which most people doesn't have these days.

  • you need to never see the one you like in your life until this happens you will always go back to him

  • Why do u want to desire other men then?

    • Because I'm single

    • Who is the guy u like? Drop me a message if that is easier?

  • U need to take more time with they guy u wanna him touch u sexual

  • you shouldn't date men it will only have a bad outcome

    • You are right. It's a nightmare.

  • Do some about the guy I want it sounds like your hiding

    • *do something about the guy I want

    • *u want

  • Don't go on dates with other people. You'll be wasting their time. I had a girl like you once who made me feel miserable in the end because I realised that whatever she was doing was in memory of some other guy.

  • Stop it. Pressuring yourself will get you nowhere.

    • What can I do?

    • Focus on other aspects of your life.