How can I get money if I signed a prenup and my husband wants to file a divorce under the pretense of 'no sex'?

My husband of two years has filed for divorce on the grounds of no sexual intercourse. Let me explain the situation, me and my husband, who I am very much still in love with signed a prenup because we were so sure that we would never get separated. However, recently he's changed and is more physically aggressive with me, making advances and dirty talking, as we don't have sex frequently.
We had sex some seven months ago, but I don't like the idea of having sex, it doesn't 'turn' me on. Ever since I made clear that I would only have sex when I'm ready seven months hence, he's become very cold and distant to me. And just about a month ago petitioned for a divorce, I tried to talk him out of it, but he's not backing out of it. Now I hate the idea of being seperated from him, but I want to hurt him. I want take something from him. I want him to realise how hurt I am and I want him to call off the divorce. Is there anyway to gain a portion of his income, and scare him enough to back away? Is there anyway to reach a settlement if the worst comes to pass?
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  • Wtf is wrong with you? You're damaged af.

  • Who doesn't like sex? Wtf.. Even if you don't. Don't you love him? Can't you do the favour. Most people would assume you are gold digger, maybe.

  • What state are you in? If you are in a no fault state you are most likely SOL.

    You can talk to a lawyer to see if there are holes in the prenup. Usually states require you an opportunity to have your own lawyer go over the pre nup with you. Wothout looking at the prenup itself, no one here can adequately advise you.

  • You deserve that, useless pussy!

  • Maybe you could start having sex with him again

  • You deserve nothing. YOU are the reason men don't want to marry anymore.

    "I do nothing and should get payed" pathetic.

  • You're husband is a smart man. He knew this day would happen.