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Sexual Health How can I get my boyfriend to trust me when it comes to sex?
Pearlblue08 Xper 5
My new boyfriend has rejected me twice when I tried to initiate sex. He said his ex girlfriend almost ruined his life and career when she accused him of rape and now he has a difficult time trusting anyone. I completely understand that but I still want to share the moment with him very much and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to pressure him but he said i have to start things off but when I do I still get rejected. I've never experienced this in all my years of dating. i have a difficult time initiating intimacy and I really feel the rejection when it happens. He is the best man that’s ever come into my life so I will not leave him.
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What Girls & Guys Said
6 40Just be patient with him. It may make him feel better if you write up a contract stating you want to have sex with him and give him permission to, and sign and date it. It's sad that we as a society have come to that, but it is what it is. Good luck.
I tried that with my ex who had been raped in a prior relationship. I agreed on she could initiate sex. It was my idea. She had similar issues to him. The problem is we're not therapists we can't fix them. They need counselling. In the end you can start getting mentally sick yourself. it becomes that upsetting as you don't know what to do..
Omfg a man said no to sex, get over yourself