How can I keep my boyfriend from asking to go bare and cum in me?

Question

I am not ready but he keeps wanting it.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

You need to tell him to grow up you need to tell him look at it I'm not ready for any kids I am not ready to do this or do that you have to be straight-up honest with him and tell him to stop even asking you will let him know when you are ready Are when you are on birth control it's just something that you are not ready for are willing to do at this moment so please stop guys don't get it guys don't get it when they stick their dick into somebody it means they could get pregnant it means the girl can have a baby in the girl takes all the responsibilities at that moment and somebody has to be responsible and it usually falls on the girl because it's her body and she's the one that's going to carry that baby for 9 months so you need to explain it to him in that matter because you know damn well if he was to shoot his c** inside you you're going to be pregnant and he's going to leave well that are the odds and him telling you know that won't happen is b******* you're the boss you're going to do the right thing protect yourself

cheapshotbob · Accepted Answer

just remind him that when you do and the baby comes around he has to get a real job and stop his video game playing. he family and not his potato chip and soda fantasy
heck you guys seem to young to be even close t ready for real life sex should be the last thing on his mind.

because right now is not thinking of you oor a baby he is only looking for self gratification , dont believe me get a used pregnancy test with a positive result and see how long he hangs around , or if he even stops playing games long enough to hear you

Kas19 · Accepted Answer

Please remind him that if he wants to have sex with you, you need to do it on your terms. Hell have his, and you have yours. I really wouldn't risk going in without wrappin the willy. But if you do, get a plan b beforehand. It might fuck up your period, but I wouldn't risk getting pregnant. Please stay safe.

Legacy95 · Accepted Answer

Just tell him no and if he respect you he will listen to what you say

MrNameless · Answer

tell him no means no and that you won't have sex at all if he can't agree to using condoms/protection

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Just tell him he cannot, if he does not respect that, then dump him as he is not worth having. a guy needs to respect his partner.

summiter · Answer

Look it is not about him it is all about you cause you are the one who will have to care for a baby the rest of your life. No condom means no sex. Have you considered going on birth control pills?

HayleyMarie · Answer

Tell him you’re not comfortable. If he doesn’t listen then he obviously doesn’t respect you. Put your foot down.

JPrez · Answer

Wear a chastity belt.

kkirk4442 · Answer

You can keep him from going bare by consistently telling him no. There is absolutely no reason to let him cum bare in your if you are not ready. It's your body. It does feel better for a guy to cum bare, but even when using a condom cumming still feels very good. Again, it's your body, your choice. If he wants in, he goes by your rules.

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Say a clear 'no' to doing that. He's your boyfriend, he should understand that.

bowenw · Answer

It's your body so you make the rules. A good guy will respect that and not pressure you. If he doesn't stop you may have to totally stop intercourse as he may try to secretly pull off the condom.

Angelo75 · Answer

Tell him to marry you first. To commit to raising a baby with you if you get pregnant.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

You could just break up 🤷🏻‍♂️

Eeeyore18 · Answer

Tell him no and that you're not ready. He can't do it unless he has consent from you. If he keeps asking, just knee him where it hurts 🤗👍🏻 Maybe he'll stop asking after that.