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How come some men don't enjoy a bj?

I'm a virgin, but I think I would really enjoy giving bjs. Its one of the things I fantisize about when I'm turned on. On g@g I have noticed that some men don't enjoy deeothroating, or a bj in general.

Now I'm not saying I like the idea of being face fucked, but I do like the idea of staying in control and deepthroating at my own will and control. Apparently some of you guys out there really don't enjoy this, why not? I know "Not all men are the same", what I'm asking is to those men who don't enjoy it- why?
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  • My opinion:

    Men not enjoying blowjobs, or women not enjoying their vagina being licked... certainly might have their reasons:

    disliking, feeling uncomfortable, awkward, etc. I will accept that if that person (he/she) allows me to show / let them feel and experience it.

    Sex, passion and pleasure ain't:

    I listen to hip hop music and everything else SUX! (example)

    In my teens... I started listening to Punk, Metal. I "hated" hip hop, rap, classical, funk, techno, etc... simply every music genre that wasn't played by my fav bands PERIOD!

    I wouldn't even listen to tracks or songs of other genres, cause all SUCKED period!

    Years past. I still like punk, metal music most. But there are songs of almost every genre now in playlist... I got passed that stupid self induced compulsive limitation...

    Back to sex :)

    So if you think you can only get hard if the woman is playing a teenage japanese school girl? Fuck yourself!

    So you only get off when your being fucked by several guys DP? Fuck yourself!

    Yeah! Everyone has their fetishes and cravings... but HEY get a grip and let yourself feel & experience every goddamn layer & level!

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  • So track with me... The first time I jerked off I went to take a piss afterwards and my young cock was still super sensitive. When my urine flowers it felt to my dick like I was orgasming again. Now fast fowraward to my first blowie... uhhhhh, sidebar - I'm not circumcised and I haven't researched this in scientific or medical journals or anything else, but I'd venture to say that because the head of my penis hasn't been exposed to the elements likes one that is circumcised, it is more sensitive - anyway, my first blowie felt so good that I was unable to stand it and then when I came close to cumming that memory of that first piss came to mind and I suddenly became worried that I might accidentally piss in her mouth. I had that stigma for years. It took me forever to be able to cum in a girl's mouth, but I did eventually get over it. This might be because of my newly acquired fetish for pissing I'm women's mouths ( I kid - I'm not into the wetworks). Now I adore a blowjob, not as much as I love eating pussy, the only bad blowie is the one I'm not getting. Not sure if any of what I wrote is relevant, but hey, if you don't like it you can suck my dick! (Also a joke because of the topic which we are discussing... People, all people are so sensitive these days I feel the need to put a caveat on anything that could be misconstrued or anything sarcastic - what a sad, sad world we live in)

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  • most important thing to remember when giving a blowjob is getting the guy to cum... men love to cum men need to cum... forget deep throating but worry about the tip of his penis... remember to do the things that are sexy like wear a short skirt when you give him head... undress him there's not a man who doesn't like to be undressed... put his dirty shoes on your bare thighs untie them... kiss his stomache... then put his cockhead in your mouth lick the tip... suck his head... remember to swirl your tongue around his head licking his vein behind the head suck his head tongue kiss his piss hole... remember the most important thing is get him to cum... so suck it like you love what your doing... when he cums be sure to swallow because other than cumming a man loves his cum swallowed... basically have fun sucking his cock smile and don't try to do what you can't do because it won't be good for him either.

  • I've noticed that too. The guys on here are like completely different than the ones I know. I would about bet that at least 85% love getting them. I've NEVER met a guy that hasn't wanted one.

    • Yeah, it's interesting

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  • Yes, some men do dislike receiving oral sex. Reasons include…

    Trust issues. Mouths are full of sharp bitey teeth and humans are known for their unpredictable, vengeful natures.
    Self-consciousness about body odours.
    Disgust at the idea of kissing ‘the toilet areas’
    Fear of sudden, unexpected incontinence.
    Fear of being expected to reciprocate.
    A desire not to pass herpes/chlamydia etc to another person.
    Objections to ‘unnatural’ sexual practices.
    Objections to any sexual practices.
    Egalitarian principles challenged by being a passive recipient.
    Pre-existing psychological trauma (e. g. memories of being molested as a child)
    Having absolutely no idea what they are missing!
    and in the very particular case of Clark Kent…

    Fear that ejaculation will lead to blowing the back of someone’s head off!

    I hope I answered your question.

  • The odds of a guy not liking a bj are low. Maybe it doesn't feel anything special to him but if that was me I'd still think it's hot for her to go down on me but maybe not something you can keep up as long.

  • Maybe they've just been with girls that don't know how to give good head. Every guy I've been with loves it

    • some guys on here claim to be very experienced and still hate it so I dunno

    • Eh I'm sure some don't but I'd think most do

    • I love giving bj also as well as getting bj

  • Getting a bj is just about at the bottom of my list when it comes to sex. It just doesn't turn me on. It has nothing to do with giving up control or lingering worries about hygiene or even fear of losing my dick to a pair of choppers. To me it's just one of those things you do before getting to the actual fun stuff.

    • do you like it when a girl kisses your neck?

    • Gives me serious goosebumps, from behind my ears to just above my collarbone (oh wait, that's literally my whole neck) it's very nice, kinda thrilling

  • I enjoy it what I love about it is when getting one to watch and feel her sensuality in slow motion her desires her passion her love for it as I rub it on her cheeks face head lips as I hold it and seduce her with it and then hokd it as she puts in her mouth and gag her holding her head as my hand controls the depth as that turns me on. And I believe I should be able or allowed to make you cum to. And knowing ur a virgin and wanting and believing in all the reason you do or have in staying thst way I would want you to trust me enough that you could sit on top of my cock placing ur hips just right so when u sit on top of it s wiggle around I could ur if pussy lips to spread wide so they straddle each side of my cock my hands on ur hips as I pull and slide you forward and back pulling u down more on me so when I pull and slide you forward ur clit slides on top of my cock forward and back until I start grinding on it until u had cum all over me

  • The most common reason is respect, they might not want to see a woman who they respect doing something like that. As for you, maybe you into it because you afraid of actual sex.

  • My guess is because a lot of girls don't know how to do it. But it could also be that they are really shy about having their dick looked at that closely.

  • Most women don't know how to give Bjs. I enjoy it if they do but it's rare.

    That being said your partner should adapt to how you like it and he needs to be able to tell how he wants it done. Some women find that offensive.

    • Most? Wow

  • I dont know never had it done to me

    • You saving yourself for marriage?

    • not now, i think marriage is v. difficult in this climate. I'm more likely now to allow a girl to break my resistance

    • Do you mean during this day and age or because of COVID?

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  • I think face fukking and deep throating are silly porn antics. Unless a guy has some psychological issues, the only reason I can think of is that the provider lacks skill.
    This is true when they are delivered with skill.

    How come some men don't enjoy a bj?

  • They prefer sticking it up some hairy man ass, maybe.

    Less teeth, or so I hear.

    • "Or so I hear" - heard from a friend eh?

    • I believe I read it in People magazine while I was in the bathroom at my great-aunt's house. The Sun was bright on that Summer day, with no breeze. It was 1998. And 9/11 hadn't even happened yet. We were all more innocent then.

  • I hope I never meet this type of men in my life.

  • because it doesn't feel as good as regular sex, bjs really don't do much for me outside of foreplay

  • I think deepthroating is unnecessary, but I wouldn't turn down a bj unless I'm just simply not in the mood, nor would I tell you not to deepthroat if that's what you wanna do.

    • so do you find that deepthroating isn't pleasurable?

    • Never had it, but I don't believe it's necessary. I'm not going to say no though. I'll just enjoy the bj. If I dislike something I'll just simply let you know.

    • alright cool

  • I would say most men do enjoy it. I don’t personally know any man who doesn’t.
    i just know some don’t like deep throating because it can hurt sometimes

    • deep throating hurts the guy?

  • What guys don’t like getting their dicks sucked? 😂

    • A few, some of them have already shared an opinion so they do exist lol

    • That’s absolutely bonkers

    • https://youtu.be/ISy0Hl0SBfg

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  • because i feel little to nothing from recieving a blow job.

  • Everyone enjoys different things sexually.

  • Coming from a guy I've experience nice ones and come not so nice ones. Some may not get the pleasure as most do from it, maybe some people they have been with have either tried to rush it or scraped their teeth it in and its not be great. Plus some might think it's a sin against their religion if they do it or are germaphobes

  • I love getting them but to me they are only part of sex. Tbh only three girls have made me cum from a BJ and one of those was a lesbian... yes... a lesbian

    • Lool

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