Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, how come you only allow girls to look and touch your cock during sex? And only when you initate it?
dragracergirl Xper 5
My husband only lets me see and touch his penis during sex. He won't let me while he's getting dressed, taking a shower or taking a piss. He never gives me access to initiate sex either. he's always working at the shop with the guys or sleeping and he sleeps on his stomach so I can't grab it, like he's purposly trying to stop me from access Why is that? How come he's allowed to see and touch me whenever he wants. Its not fair.
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Maybe its not him maybe its me? I need to stop being afraid. I just need to grab it and look when I want to and we need to find more time to be alone together so I can.
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What Guys Said
(24)Talk with him about it. Point out his hypocrisy to him. If he's a good husband, he will listen.
Ah yes, let's generalize your husband's behaviour to the rest of the male population. Any girl I'm dating can play with my dick whenever she wants. I can't say it'll be hard all the time for her but she can flop the flaccid thing around until she's bored.
your right!! I'm always brandishing my "love tool" LOL I love to give it as much attention as possible! and to your point about sleeping, I make it very clear that she is to wake me up by fondling my junk !! wherever and whenever she wants to. maybe its time to move on? I have room for one more
Any female I'm dating is more than welcome to touch my little buddy.
I would generalize this as a guy thing... Sounds like just your husband thing. I get dressed in front of my girl, or walk up behind her naked. She reaches down my pants to pull my penis out whenever she wants.
Strange...
I am not sure why that is. I parade around the house giving my wife every opportunity and she never does anything with it. Maybe my wife and your husband should get together and you and I should. It sounds like we would be a better pair and so would they.
I love it when my partner initiates and I am more than happy to give every opportunity and easy access to it.
That's his issue. Mist guys would like a woman to touch it any time.
Typo there. Anyhow I think he has some deep issue.
It's really only fun to show it to girls when it's in "Sword Of Justice!!" mode...
perhaps you ought to ask him... it might be he is uncomfortable naked outside of sex