How did you learn about sex?
For me it was mostly the internet, then "toys" but not actually toys because I have strict parents and I'm scared they might find them so it was just toys like hairbrushes or make up brushes. Then eventually I learned with guys which is the best way to learn I think!
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64 127Talking with friends, books, movies, trial and error.
I hate to say this but through Adult films, magazines, Health class from high school, and friends, in then with ex-girlfriend.
With other girls I just paid attention 🥰😂
Learned it in sex ED in high school
When I was 12 I found my father’s stash of pornography. 😈
porn
Well no one taught me anything about sex apartment from biological reproduction. Sperm meets egg.. etc. Then when I was 15 I was groomed by a man I met online in his mid 30s and that how I learned about all of it..
Did you ever meet him?
I'm sorry to hear
Same, grown m e n my daughter is never having a phone. My friend was rich and had internet and I never wa wanted to be home. It's worst today I think of course we thought of it as a game secret.
@GenaBaby1995 honestly I’d be more concerned about using a thong photo as my profile picture…
A mix of boys playing and loudly exclaiming sexual stuff out of context, sex education in school and porn.
Through internet. 100%
I was a huge nerd even as a little baby. I read science books all the time. I learned the names of all the parts and what they did and the mechanics of it by age 7 just from reading a big variety of science books. Within a year I developed the urge to look at porn but I didn't figure out masturbation for another 2 years.
from my parents first, then from school and them from porn / the internet.
I accidentally stumble across porn when I was 10
Internet, and reddit sex is actually pretty helpful reading topics of people's problems.
I thank god I never got the talk from BOTH of my parents. My mom asked if I knew what 'Fuck' was. She really emphasized it.
When I was molested by my older sister & her friend. Happened 8 years until I could fight them off, if I didn't do what they wanted I got smothered with a pillow. They were older than me & the one person I was closest to & confided in, my older brother slapped me in the face & walked off after. I just thank God I was able to fight them off before puberty for obvious reasons.
Awful experience. I hope you recovered from it.
@Ehjoh1 thanks, still working on myself, I tried therapy but no one seems to care & view you as weak.
You’re a strong person to deal with this trauma. You can get through this. Don’t let anyone invalidate your feelings. It’s especially unfortunate that men are seen as people who should deal with problems by being manly and strong, but anyone can be a victim. I hope you recover!
@roxbby thank you for your kind words, I appreciate it. Took me ages to become vulnerable enough to even speak of it. I'm done hiding who I am for better or worse.
@Adronicus that seems harsh, because I think sexual violence is wrong no matter what happens and who does it to whom. You have my respect and I believe you are not weak!!! 🙏💯
@Ehjoh1 thanks, I saw a therapist once, didn't seem to care or believe me so spent a ton of time reading about psychology trying to fix myself.
Neighbor kid had his dad's Playboy mags. Used photographic memory and a clenched hand. 🍆✊
This one mall security guard took me down to the bathroom and said "Now this is how you don't touch people"
I think it was 3rd grade when our substitute teacher played a where children come from animated video. Wait a minute, unfortunately it was before that, that my dad told me that. Not how I wanted to know.
talking to my friends, books, movies, talking to my cousin and my aunt
Sexologist I encounter on YouTube, then a lot of material given when I studied psychology.
Porn + movies :)