How do guys like women to initiate sex?

I'm shy when it comes to initiating sexual activities (probably cause fear or rejection) so do you guys have any tips on the best way to approach you or ask or invite you for sex (plus I like it when the guy initiates more anyway but I wanna know cause I think it could be hot if I were to surprise a guy somehow with it like out of nowhere)
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And are there time when guys might say no? (other than being tired or sick)
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My usual tell I when I'm cuddling with a guy and I'll rub his chest and slowly down his stomach until I reach his boxers then I'll just graze it through the boxers with my hand until he takes em off
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  • @jgirl99. Shyt I'd hook u up n dat way u wouldn't need to ask no1!

    • Shyt il help y'all.. do y'all wear leggings? Hw big r u 2? Cuz size shouldn't matter? U no dat ryte?

    • Yea I wear leggings lol why?

  • I like if they initiate and I don't deny

  • You have a lot opinion here! I think you know now!

    Turn conversation in sex way and you got sex for sure!

    Or kiss he and in that timp go with your hand into he's leg and feel he's arm

  • Be blunt. Straight forward. Confidence is key. A woman that knows what she wants the way she wants it. Is so attractive. Don't make a big deal about it. Use shock as well. Out of nowhere, whisper in his ear: eat my p%#@y please. Before doing that you should know if the guy is interested in you. You'll know. Use your eyes to direct him in a private room etc. The more creative and spontaneous and not the norm. You will be hitting homeruns. And the more you do something in life, the easier it becomes doing

  • To me always feet make me crazy

  • We're direct (I know it goes against how women are, but it's how we are), so that's what we respond to. Directly say/ask, or just start doing something (like come up and kiss, or touch etc). The chances of "rejection" when it comes to sex is like 0. LOL