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How do guys not get attached after sex?
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21 101Our body doesn't release as much bonding hormones during sex.
Women release a chemical that makes them attached to the person they had sex with for 30 days. Men release that same chemical, for 48 hours.
Thus, if you're screwing around with different guys before they already like you, they aren't going to like you afterwards.
Where did you get these statistics or are you just saying them
@Kazzza I mean I can try to pull up the exact article but I’ve read it before a few times
I read it was 3 DAYS to 1DAY Simple solution~ just don’t see him for three days after 🤷♀️
@VIVANT maybe. Men fall in love based on trust, while women fall in love based on intimacy. So there’s that too
It's easier to deny your feelings initially for the person and move on or just think of it as a one night stand and nothing more than to give in to your feelings and get hurt in the process, men do have emotions but sometimes it betrays us when we let them be known to women; ( the fact is that women wants and their needs is two different things ). And women tend to put their wants above their needs while we take care of our needs before our wants.
I do get attached.
Before sex even happens though.
Easy, most girls don't realize this -> we generally go for easy targets for sex... If she's a girl we would date, we would fall in love when we have sex, but we don't because we know already from the first 1 minute of seeing her physically that she's not the girl we want long term, for the most part... so we dump her in the sex pile...
its really as simple as that
Everybody gets somewhat attach during sex, but I guess guys care more about gettin a nut out than the actual person.. They end up disregardin that attachment because they got what they came for (no lunch intended).. But a lot of guys do plainly get attached..
A good portion of men see’s sex as sex. Because men know that anything is possible. (Cheating) so they don’t hold much weight to it. Technically everyone cheats either it’s happened already or it will later.
Ps I’m not saying we like being cheated on but the thought of the possibility NEVER leaves the mind.
Guys like the feeling of sex and will get it every chance they can get.
I'm not a guy but sex doesn't make me feel different about a person.
How different does it make you feel?
@aj_bounce It doesn't
I know! It's super confusing to me... If I EVER lost my Virginity to a Girl... I'd still be attached to Her!
I get very attached, I'd say some girls don't either from my experience
Even if you don’t have feelings before?
Well I've never gone into sex thinking "I'm just going to use this person". I've always just hoped it would turn into more after based on my attraction to them
Some do, but not all. I certainly don't.
Guys do dispute common theory. After time and multiple sessions.
I am a sucker, I get attached to my ons that only wanted a quick one. I still think of one I met in passing wondering what her name is and where she might be today.
People need to stop having sex out of wedlock
I think biologically speaking, it's our job to mate with as many women as possible. Getting attached would prevent us from doing that.
Though if I like a girl I get attached before sex.
No, that's actually not your job. And that's the reason why we have so many young single mothers on welfare.
So why do guys get married?
@Jamie05rhs I mean job as in our biological nature... Of course it's not our job but going to basics of biology that is what we were designed to do
@Goodwifie I didn't say our sole job is to mate... That is how we are down to our core. Of course we've evolved to not mate with everyone and to find stability. But there is a reason why each man can reproduce with practically any woman.
Emotionless I guess
How do women not feel bad for leading men on or using them?
Same same. Biology.
They do. Unless they're cold, dead, or heartless.
Some guys just logic themselves out of developing feelings.