How do guys not get attached after sex?

They can just have sex without feelings, just pleasure.. and not call the girl up afterwards or want a relationship with her
They can just have sex without feelings, just pleasure.. and not call the girl up afterwards or want a relationship with her
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  • Some men do and some men do not. Equally, some women do amd some women do not.

    Me, I do not. I do not fall in love through my penis.

  • I think guys do get more attached after sex. Maybe men's sex drive is more decoupled from whether they are interested in a committed relationship with someone. I have had sex with women because I was horny, where after the horniness subsided, I knew absolutely that I didn't want a relationship with this person. Sometimes it's less clear-cut. I have grown attached to girlfriends where deep down I probably knew she wasn't the one, but there was a lot to like about her, and the bond that developed with regular intimacy probably made it harder to break up than if the relationship had been purely platonic.

  • Let tell me you a secret:
    They are "fucked up"

  • People should be attached before having sex with someone. Only messed up people can have sex with someone they aren't attached to.

  • Because we need our variety. I love having sex with so many different types of women. I couldn't be tied down to just one.

    I'm young, tall, dominant, have a huge cock and women love me. No fucckin way I'd settle for just ONE!

    • You forgot to mention "humble" lol

    • Guys that always claim they have the biggest cock, NEVER do🤦‍♀️😂

  • The ones who do not get attached after sex are usually players, they have had so much sex that it becomes just another habit. They are desensitized to relationships.

  • its the same as masturbating, u dont fall in love with the guy u see on screen after u masturbate to him do u?
    its strictly for pleasure... same thing for guys when we fuck a girl... we jus use her as a toy we can get plesure from... a real life living human toy..

    • u dont need to connect emotional feelings like love to physically pleasure and looks

  • well maybe by the sex being bad xD

  • They just want to cum.. once they cum it's over. No further feelings.

  • Not completely true. Lots of men get attached afterwards, thinking it might be something more than what it is.

    First time I ever had sex I thought for sure that meant she wanted more than that; nope... I was just a means for her to get off and wound up on the curbside lol.

  • Well here is one guy that cannot. I'd much prefer the dates, long walks, activities, romance, flirting and then have emotions and feelings before sleeping with a girl. Some guys can, good for them, but i know i CAN"T. :)

  • It depends if the guy really likes the girl or if it was just a game!! Anyway I do get attached, we're not all the same

  • What do you mean "how?" We just... do. There's no how to it.

  • I did get attached, and it lead to a world of pain for me. It's mostly because she was my first and only at the time, plus we had many deep conversations that I'd never had with anyone before. She's also still the only girl I've ever kissed. With the two other girls I've since had sex with, I didn't share much with either of them and it was clear all around that it was just sex and nothing more, plus, they weren't as nice and we didn't kiss at all.

  • Some DO, Some Dont.

  • For women it's an emotional mothering family nesting thing, and men it's a physical necessity

  • Because... "love" or even "a whole lot of like" is not a prerequisite for enjoying the physical pleasures of sex, if you're most guys. It's really THAT simple.

  • Who is saying that? My man got attached to me big time :)

  • Because some of them don't want to be attached. It's all in the mindset of the person you're with. If you go into it thinking you're going to change their mind, well, I've got 4 words for you: Good Luck With That.

  • Well biologically, their body releases a LOT less of the love hormone during sex in comparison to women.
    Plus unlike with women, where their biology literally tells them to get attached.. with men it's like have as many offsprings as possible so...
    Just think about animals and then it's not really that hard to understand lol.

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