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Sexual Health How do I convince my lesbian daughter to have a preference for men?
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My daughter (19F) had recently came out to me (36F) about her sexuality, and I couldn't be any more disappointed in her than I currently am. She tries her very hardest to dress as a man would. I didn't raise her be this way. I raised her to be a dainty, feminine LADY. She refuses to listen to me when I tell her that she needs to get right with the Lord, and pretends that she doesn't believe in Him any longer. Her lifestyle is leading her down the pathway to Hell. What should I do?
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26 107Being a lesbian isn't a sin let her live her own life.
Love is love. 💞
Right.
Once she gets out of that closet she never goes back. Same thing like once she goes gay she never goes back!
You have a choice of love her or disowned her.
That’s complete horse poop, my daughter dipped her toes in the girlie pond for over 4 years, decided it wasn’t for her and went back to guys.
That's good that your daughter changed her sexuality. Most girls and guy don't do it
@rcljr experimenting is different
@Twalli , she wasn’t experimenting, she was in it “ whole hog”, then 4 years later POOF !
Or she could be bisexual without telling
Or she didn't know. A friend in college entered as straight, came out after winter break as gay, came out after spring break as bisexual. He went through a lot of self discovery.
U can't. She's 19 and able to make her own decisions so.
You mean by being able to make decisions, you also mean by being smart enough to listen to her mother, right?
@asker I think her listening to you would be the unsmart thing to do since you aren’t even hearing out 95% of the comments 😊
the more you're gonna interfere in her like the more distant she's gonna get anyway
Just accept her
Talk to her and read the Bible with her and take her to church
:: Headpalm:: SMH, no... no, no, no,... NO. Bad advice from someone ill-informed on these matters
@Tamera952 you are crazy
Look at your profile picture enough said
You are Probably not even Christian
Yes I am crazy, ... but the BUY-BULL is crazier. You gotta be nuts to willing swallow that horse shit.
Who? Me or the asker? -- I am absolutely 100% NOT a christian. I want nothing to do with that shit. (& for the record, don't judge a book by its cover - OR in this case, my profile pic. It has nothing to do with anything)
@Tamera952 that’s ver sad a lost soul I can work with you Open your heart ❤️
Says you. I look at people drinking the christian koolaid as "SAD"
@Tamera952 that’s because you’re hard hearted and lost your desire and instead of doing the right things in life it’s easy to be bad and sInning I’m not giving a crap anymore
And not
Huh? Is that so? Thanks for psycho-analyzing me... somehow I don't think you're qualified nor know anything bout me.
@Tamera952 I am
I think you're trolling.
The more you preach on it, the more she'll resist. You can't change someone's sexual preference. That's up to them.
Yea I don't think that's quite how shit works
You can't.
I’m no expert, but don’t try to make it feel like she has no choice. That will only make things worse. Don’t try to force her. Implore her to try a straight relationship on her own accord. Maybe ask if she wants help finding a good enough man. (Hooking her up without asking would be controlling, meaning it would backfire.)
the daddy is of course absent. faggotry is always the result of daddy issues.
You need to face reality. She will not like men. She's a lesbian. Embrace her or lose her for a long time or the rest of her life when she turns eighteen.
She might have hormonal imbalance get her to endocrinologist
Honestly theirs not much you can do. If she has made that choice to tell you than more than likely she made the choice to be lesbian years before she told you because she knew that you would act this way. She has accepted that you won't accept her for what she wants to be and she has more than likely accepted the fact that nothing she will do can change your mind. As for you sense your a mother like any parent they want whats best for their child and honestly who knows whats actually best for anyone. All you can do is base off your own life choices. As for your daughter well she's not gonna listen to you till she fines the hard truth about her choices. Maybe one day she will listen to you but I doubt it. Most people who turn lesbain/gay or trans usually stop caring what other people think is right.
She was born that way, just like you were born hetero. It is not a chosen lifestyle. It is biology.
Take it out back and remind it where it came from and what gender she is.
I really can’t tell if you’re a troll or just a ignorant ass person
@SmokinAces2000 suck my dick.
Aw I knew it you’re secretly closeted, it all makes sense now
@SmokinAces2000 They are all just pretenders. They talk one way here. . . another way in their real lives. Being disingenuous is how a person starts down the path to self-delusion.
You can't
You don’t
She can't change her sexual orientation anymore than sh ed can change her height, eye color, natrual hair color, etc. It's an unchangeable part if her. You can either love YOUR daughter or not.