Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health How do I get my guy to initiate anal?
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We are both 23 and have been together for 4 months. Sex has been great but I've been having an urge to have anal sex with him but I'm not really sure how to bring it up. The last guy I was with was a bit older (35) and he introduced me to it by slowly testing the waters with my ass during sex. Like it was something he wanted to try so I didn't really have to bring it up. And while I know the guy I'm with now isn't disgusted with it (I've seen some of his porn history) I think he either never really thought about actually trying it himself or he thinks like girls don't like it and it's only a porn thing or something? So it's like how do I kinda breach the subject without just being like "Hey love wanna fuck me up the ass?"
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4 45Get him to do you doggy style, than part way through it just reach back and slide his cock in your ass. He will probably really groove to it. Don't forget the lube.
Ironically, right now he's likley writing somthing along the line of "how do I break it to my girl that I want to try anal?" on a forum similar like this.
I know you're young but seriously... People need to dare talk to eachother.
Well ok that makes since... But I want him to take the reigns!
Beat him home from work one day, get nude, and wait for him to pull in the driveway. When you hear that go kneel down facing away from the door face down ass up and spread your cheeks wide
Hopefully he doesn't yell out "Honey I brought both our parents over for dinner" as he opens the door 😂
LolXD
Tell him that your interested in trying new positions, and when he asks what say anal
Maybe by asking him in a not so crass way. Something along the way like hon do you think you could try playing with my anus while making love to see if we would like to explore for future play, just to plant the seed. Or you could cum without a condon in my ass get him thinking. Although there are guys that wouldnot go near your ass for any amount of money. Try it you have nothing to loose.
He might think I'm weird and slutty that why I want it to be his idea if that makes sense?
I can not fault you and time is the only thing that might change you mind. I have asked around the guy hangout and asked their thoughts on what they would think of a girl hinting of wanting to try or do anal sex and out of the 18 guys asked 17 great were willing one said no way it was dirty etc aand 17 looked at him like he had 4heads and he lost his man card for not WANTING offered anal sex. If he does not want anal sex when offered hold your head high your no slut just a person wanting the pleasure you can have during sex and he is to turn in his man card if rebuffed by him YOU ARE NOT SLUT!!! YOU ARE NOT WEIRD. You are every normal guys dream even a dirty old man dares to dream of what you your thinking of offering. feel good about your self try and if possible enjoy
bring it up with him the way you just asked here
“Fuck me in my ass”
That would only make since if I yelled it while he was riding me hard but then he'd probably think he had sexed me crazy lol
No. You just walk up to him and say it
I'll think about it
It’s direct and leaves no room for misinterpretation plus it’s hot as fuck. Say it to him as you’re taking your pants off
Say that to me I wouldn’t be able to stick it in fast enough
Most girls dont like it
Tell you want all holes
Anal is wrong
I would never do that because I think it's disgusting but who knows maybe he is into that
He may be shy, because some women don't like anal, so you convince him that you like this, make hin erect and rub her dick on your butt cheeks and on your asshole, I hope he will turn on
Why don't you just tell him mid-sex, to "fuck my ass" ?
I'm not into anal so no idea
It's fun
Please explain
Communication!
You'll never know if you never ask.
Next time you are doing 69, start playing with his butthole. After a minute, if he doesn't get the idea, move his hand to your butt and guide him down to ground zero. Next time you want to give him a hand job, tell him to get in doggy position, start jerking him off from behind, and then give him a rim job. Then swap places and maybe he'll get the idea to give you a rim job. At that point, tell him that it's time to be naughty. That should get you there.
Simply directed and guided him into your backdoor, and see how he will respond.
You need a bad boy 😎
I suggest you don't do anything dirty with anal intercourse you will have a lot of health problems
They have something called an ectopic pregnancy. An Ectopic pregnancy occurs when the embryo implants outside the endometrial tissue of the uterus. It is possible for it to happen inside the small intestines if there is a rupture of tissues. So basically you can have a fetus developing in your intestines. That means it will be born a little shit.
@Daniela1982 I don't think you know the dangers of anal intercourse. If you want to humiliate yourself like an animal, you can fuck your ass.
I know that if you do it enough you will be wearing adult diapers at 55.
@Daniela1982 That's what I said. The shit on your ass starts to fall. And anal sex is addictive. The best is the vaginal one.
I'll tell you what worked for me. I had never done it before and my girlfriend never said anything about it so it wasn't on my radar. One evening we're watching netflix and she gets up and leaves for a while. She comes back wearing some lingerie with a naughty look on her face, grabs my hand and walks me to the bedroom. She gets on her knees and I see she's wearing a butt plug. I get rock hard in about 3 seconds. I drop my shorts and start to put my dick in her pussy. She says no, not there. Done.