How do I give oral sex without looking like a whore?

I am 38 and newly divorced. I have done all I can to make myself trim and attractive and have often been told that I have done very well. My ex-husband is the only man I have ever had sex with and I have never performed oral sex.

I just crave to get into giving oral. I don't want to do it to a bunch of guys. I just want to get one guy that really enjoys it. I have watched about a thousand blowjob videos. I really want to do it but don't want to come across as a whore. How do I get a guy to ask me to suck his cock? Maybe I will ask him to do it to me then he will ask if I will do it in return.

All I want is a mouthful of cock. I want to just devour it until it bursts in my mouth. I once tasted a bit of my husband's cum when he didn't see me and I love the taste of it. I want a mouthful of it.

How do guys feel about having their balls licked? How long do you like it for?

Just how do I get it started without looking like a whore? I welcome tips from anyone and may be interested in guys as young as 18.
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  • Nowadays oral is expected. Usually they go down on me just as a normal next step after kissing and me maybe playing a bit with their tits. But it’s not a big deal. Some do it more as part of their routine and some really enjoy doing it, those are the best. The ones that go down and suck my cock like is the most delicious thing they’ve ever put in their mouths, that also play with my balls and the bonus is when they deepthroat me. But only a few can, it’s not a requirement. Hope this helps!

  • I mean, most guys will just take the free blowjob and be happy.

    Literally just ask

  • Thinking... will get back to you soon.

  • Dont think about it too much just let it happen.

  • Want my address?

  • I don’t think many guys would complain. I know I wouldn’t. Just make out then unzip him and give it a tug until u r ready to do it

  • Do not worry about anything but having fun, ask the guy what he likes

  • just do it with passion and make him close his eyes in pleasure

  • just do it like no one is looking at you.
    do what ever you want. when the dick will get hard between your hand you will know what to do when it's in your mouth

  • It's ok to look like one

  • we like it dirty. what you describe is perfect! if you dont want to be treated like a ho later, have a good personality, smart and connect with your guy.

  • I assume your ex-husband was the one that pursued you and hit on you

  • Why should you want not to look a whore?

  • I wish I knew you and would help you learn but you’re not going to be thought of as a whore especially if you’re looking like you never did it which is strange since you were married unless he didn’t like them which is really rare so you basically just ask, no normal guy would say no or think anything bad of you

  • Jmmmfi4’s answer 😂😂

  • Well if you lived in my city k owing you felt like this w out wanting to look like a whore I’d be ok w it. But you probably don’t. As to not looking like a whore. Well unless you come straight out, pull out his did then start sucking that’s be the most obvious way a man might think you’re a whore. But if you can hold off for a bit, maybe a couple dates then slowly progress to that I think it’s ok. But at the same time he may think that’s too soon, like wow 2 dates she’s already swallowing my cock. If he’s not looking for something serious, he may still see you as a whore. It’s just depends on who you choose. Are you w acting to date someone or you just want to suck some dick?

  • What's the harm in looking like a whore while giving BJ to your own man?

  • Follow me and ill DM you

  • How do I give oral sex without looking like a whore?

    You have to make a decision. Do you want to suck dick or look like an angel?

    • lmao what do u choose?

    • @MarkyMark77 There was no one in my area on that app.

    • u trying to suck a dick?

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  • You can't. It is one of the most degrading acts a person can do on another.

    • Sorry I just crave to do it.

    • No its not. Treating someone like a house slave is the most degrading. I would never do that to my girlfriend. If I need something i can get it myself. Now if she's getting up and asks then ill tell her bc she offered. I can clean my own mess. Then if something needs cleaning, i can do it. So in essence any type of sexual position or act is not degrading unless you rape them. Then its degrading.

    • Oral is degrading? ROFL

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