honesty. just dont think about it too much or it will be all wrong and awkward. if there's one thing I've learned its to just go with how u feel in the heat of the moment and almost "give in" to you primitive desires. if youve already got to the point where he has fingered you then its safe to say you in the clear to grab his dick and he won't mind, in fact he's probably waiting for you to do it. truth is, dicks aren't as sensitive as most girls think. there's actually very little feeling in the base to the head so u could probably grab it as hard as u can and it wouldn't "hurt" (might not be that pleasurable but still) the balls are a completley different story, u should be carefull in that area. thers a fine line between pain and pleasure down there. that being said still dont be afraid to ask him if it hurts or feels good. COMMUNICATION IS KEY. so yea, next time you two are going at it ;) if u kno what i mean. surprise him like this. slide you hands down his pants. and grab it like u want it. DONT BE TOO GENTLE. and say "wow its soo big" . by the sounds of it u want to give him a blowjob so u should tell him. i want it in my mouth. thats garenteed to turn him on. anyways. these are just my humble sugestions. i hope it helped..
Grab it like a baseball bat or maybe a broom. I'm sure either way is fine. Having a hard dick pointing down is not comfortable, so pointing up or at least straight out (not possible in pants) is best. Tighten your grip until you can feel it throbbing in your hand. Better yet, take his dick out of his pants and stroke it lovingly and not too rough.
No no no no... You grab them by tbe pussy!
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then you kinda grab it more like stroke it i pressed enter by mistake before
He doesn't want you to blow him? Ok thats up to him but just do it (not to hard though friend of mine had to stop his girlfriend before she got him off because his dick turned purple)
while making out, slowly put your hand on his dick, and rub it slowly over his pants, and then try to grab it slowly, and then unzip it and do your thing
why doesn't he want you to blow him?
do it along making out
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