Sit and discuss it.
you really need to have absolute Trust and respect for each other.
you need to put in limits, what is allowable and what is not.
Safety is key.
at all times you control what happens, that is the key thing you need to remember
Safety also if using bondage, no fabric in mouth that may come loose.
there are some good resources on BDSM sites thst cover how to introduce it.
setting the story up properly is also part of it and I advise having as an open period within a few weeks max a month.
one way to do it simply is, Take a book and write this fantasy in that a small book preferably, now on the top cover use a red marker and write my secret fantasy confidential , please do not touch and make sure that your boyfriend knows that where you keep this book unknowingly and let him read it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You need to sit down with him and have a conversation about it. And maybe you can come up with a sign (a hand gesture, or a particular article of clothing that you wear, or whatever) that will let him know when you are up for it. You need to make him understand that you want this, WHY you want it, that you only want it sometimes and not others, and maybe describe things about it that you like or want, and things that might be crossing the line.
Remember: he cannot read your mind, so he isn't going to know if a certain word or certain action triggers you in the wrong way unless you tell him. You should have a safeword if you feel that he's going too far, and he needs to know that if you say the safeword (or use the safe gesture), that he is to stop immediately.
Understand that you are asking for some "advanced" stuff here, and you need a guy who you can trust to do "advanced" stuff with, and who you can talk to in depth and trust that he's going to understand and respect you, because you can't do this kind of thing without some frank and honest discussion first.
Remember too that guys need to UNDERSTAND what you're asking them to do, and they need real guidelines. Our brains work differently than female brains, and ours aren't driven nearly as much by emotion and more by logic, so we have to understand things in a more logical way. If he seems like he's not "getting it", remember that part, as it will help you communicate more effectively with him.
Finally, there's a decent chance that this is going to be too much to ask of him. Obviously I don't know him (or you), but there are plenty of men who would not feel comfortable doing this, and if he is one of those guys, you need to understand that - and if this is that important to you, then you may need to break up with this guy and find a more compatible partner. Obviously you must also have a huge amount of trust between the two of you - trust and respect are critical parts of any BDSM-related activity.
Don't phrase it that way; you'll probably freak him out a little. Rape fantasies are not uncommon among women, and playing sexual power dynamics is not uncommon in fantasies among women OR men. He'll likely be willing to accommodate you, but I'd bring it up cautiously; maybe start a conversation about secret fantasies and offer up the idea.
There is no way to make that not weird, cause that is fucking weird.
Tou want a boyfriend that will fuck you (rape you) no matter how much you cry, try to get away, or scratch at him? Then what he cums and you two just go to sleep in the same bed right next to each other?
If your were talking about the rape fantasy some women have, which has a safe word that be one thing but youndont mention a safe word,. no you said no matter what.
Any guy that would agree to this is a bad guy to be with, IF HE'LL GLADLY RAPE YOU THATS A HUGE REDFLAG!
I want to get raped! Mmmm, rape play take me down by the hair pin me tire me out til I can't fight anymore pull my jeans halfway down pin me to the dirty floor and rape me. While he pounding me on the floor hard I go limp and fantasize about get pulled into a truckers cab or bathroom just fcking pinning down all his weight on me and pounding me face down over and waits some and get back on me and keeps raping me or i'm stopping side by the highway to pee and someone trucker stops pushes me to the ground or back in my car and pulls pulls my jeans to my ankles spread my legs and make me watch him keep going in and out of me and again after that and leaves never gets caught
Sis, if you want your boyfriend to do that, then that's not rape. Tell him to start fucking you hard and that you'll start getting into it gradually. He'll know.
i have the same fantasy but i hope i won't have to tell my boyfriend, i want him to just do it
You could broach the subject by inviting him to watch porn and include some that includes rape fantasies to gauge his reaction. Ask him if he enjoyed watching it and if he'd like to give it a try. Let him know you want to try and the scenarios you would be into. If there's anything you're not willing to do in the fantasy such as swallowing cum, electrical stimulation, anal sex, etc., let him know up front. Be sure to have a safe word or gesture (in case you're tied up) to let him know to stop. Also let him know it's okay for him to stop for any reason if he's not comfortable. If he's willing to participate in your fantasy, don't forget to offer to fulfill any of his. As usual, communication is critical and you may have to take your level of trust with each other to a new level.
This is biggest shit test double standard catch 22 fantasy females have. Anyway.
You need to sit down and tell him exactly what you want. This isn’t rape because you want it. But you are role playing being a rape victim. Big difference. You need to think of a SAFE word “e. g. pickles”. Something obvious, non erotic and can’t be mistaken. This is your absolute fail safe last resort word. It’s the only word that REALLY means stop.
I once had a younger girl ask me to slap her up we did a hook up. We made up a safe word. It was scary and I could of “somewhat” do what she wanted. But for a first time hook up it just felt way too risky.
It's very simple..
Like in 50 shades of grey.. Talk to a lawyer and get a defined contract made where you give him consent to rape you at any time as long as you are in a committed relationship with him..
If you grant him legal immunity to rape you he will be willing to do it..
Then in contact define "Safe word" to slow and stop his actions and do every thing and trust me it will be epic.. You will enjoy getting raped by him..
Thats a cool fantasy. It depends how mature your boyfriend is, if he's not to not serious i would just tell him, make it clear that if you say something or say any perticular word to stop doing it, that he only has your concent sometimes. Some boys are paranoid about being accused of rape so maybe you could draw up a contract where you say if i do this then he can do that, but if he rapes me when that specific time wasn't put down then no. Something like that, but he may just not be into it.
Perhaps tell him you want to do a CNC role-play sometime.
That's a good idea thanks
its called a fetish
Duh.
id satisfy her need if that was rape playfully than sure
As I always say, women love to be abused.
Ask him his fantasy and then try telling yours. If you two are close enough, he should be willing to try it. Good luck.
Just ask - as long as you're prepared for the consequences of him not stopping when you ask.
Honestly just telling him upfront would be best
How would you react if your girlfriend told you that?
i just be like why, but ok than don't get mad at me when it happens
Consensual nonconset is not too uncommon. Make sure you have a safe word and talk to him about ir.
philosphically, it wouldn't be rape then. but just ask, he'll oblige.
This is actually a lot more of a common fantasy than most people think. I would recommend having a very frank conversation with him laying it out there and explaining what you’d like him to do exactly and what the boundaries or parameters would be.
A lot of women have that same fetish. Just enjoy it.
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