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Sexual Health How Do I Tell My Boyfriend To Stop Getting Erections; When we hug, cuddle or have any physical contact?
Anonymous
Hello I would appreciate some advice; so I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years and he is an amazing man and treats me like a princess! We met at a coffee shop when we both worked downtown; he is an medical researcher and I am university student. He is 27 and I’m 21 so I have noticed since we began dating anytime we would cuddle or kiss or simply be intimate in those ways he would get an erection. At first I would ignore it and not say anything as I know he was visibly embarrassed and his face would turn red! but to this very day anytime I hug him or cuddle or simply touch him in private he just gets an erection! and he never talks about it or mentions how he feels to me and just chooses to ignore it and becomes visibly red ! We have not had sex yet in these 5 years so I don’t know if this is why? we are both virgins But I find it a bit irritating and would love physical contact without his penis getting in between us! Thanks for the advice
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 23lady if he didn't get an erection then that would have been a real problem. so you're good to go.
can't control it... at least he gets hard just by touching you
why have you not had sex for 5 years? and don't tell him to stop getting erections unless you're ready for him to find a woman that doesn't have a problem with his natural sexuality
He can't control his erections.
poor man being denied sex for 5 years just have sex with him already!
he can't its natural reaction
He can't control it. It's a natural thing.