How do I tell my fuck buddy I'm on my period?

I don't know what else to call him. We're really good friends who have sex but we are definitely not dating 😂 I'm 18, he's 20. It's my birthday tomorrow and also coincidentally the one day that I'll get to see him in a long time and we were going to hook up but now I'm on my period! I'm so mad lol!! But really, how do I tell him over text?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Just be like *fuck, don't be pissed... But I started my period today 😣* if you're comfortable with having period sex, see if he still wants too. Some guys don't mind having sex while you're on your period. But it depends on the way you feel also. If you feel bloated and/or crampy and sick, then just explain to him that you don't want to hook up until after your period because you feel nasty or think it's gross. If he's mature he should be able to handle the fact that you're on your period and not freak out because you're on it lol it's a normal bodily function and if he can't handle that, then how's he gonna handle kids one day lol just tell him like I said above :))

    • I like this answer. Period sex is best

    • lol why though? I don't get it haha

  • Be honest about it, if he makes a big deal then he probably isn't mature enough to handle being friends with benefits in the first place. A few guys I know have issues with it, but I would never date them. It's a natural part of life, and I wouldn't let it get in the way of having some fun. Just have your fun in the bathroom or with a towel down.

    • Period sex is best and a woman that won't have period sex then it's a deal breaker for me.

  • You literally just tell him. See how he feels about it. Maybe he's cool with doing it anyway, maybe he's not. Either way, if he acts mad, grossed out, or annoyed, he's a little baby and not mature enough to deserve to fuck you ever.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Just be strait up and tell him "I can't have sex because I am on my period". If he wants to get all eww gross about it then all it shows is his immaturity and how much he needs to grow up. Sorry not trying to speak badly of your fuck buddy.

  • Just say "we can't fool around, Im on my period." Or you could offer the back door. ;)

    • Haha thanks! Honestly I just straight up told him and I did offer the back door so that's what we're doing tomorrow. Then I come back here and see 25 responses to my question. Probably should have read these first lol

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  • "would really like to fuck you but unless you want blood all over your dick, it can't happen this time. "

  • Easy. You just tell him. "Hey, it's shark week for me this week and it's not a good time to swap bodily fluids so we may have to kibosh the sex tomorrow. Lol. Just tell him. There's other ways of pleasure

    • Personally I would want to have the period sex. Best sex of the month.

  • He won't care. Say "I'm on my period, so we will have to put down a towel"

    • Yeah, or do this.

  • You got a mouth who can talk , tell him your on your period how bad is that one

    • *You

  • "hey. Im on my period, so yeah"

    ^_^ easy

  • Tell him you can't have sex because you'll be bleeding for the next 5-7 days.

  • If you are actually friends, then it is a friends with benefits. If you just hookup, no real friendship then it's a fuck buddy.
    Anyways it's easiest if you just come out and say it. Make mention over text like, "eh, periods suck!"

  • ... Just tell him, lol.

  • Well just tell him its ladies time unfortunately so can we perhaps try some alternatives?

  • Say ''Sorreh bebeh I'm on ma period, it's not you it's mehhh''

  • Just text him and if you are any good you will suck him off

  • just fell him.

  • Either say I'm on my period or do it with him anyway yolo

  • Just send a giant red period

  • Tell him you have your monthly visitor and you still want sex and hopefully he would be like me and still want to have sex.

  • Just let him know. It's totally natural, if you want to use a euphemism just tell him it's that time of the month.

  • "Hello Mr. Fuckbuddy, I am currently on my period and I would rather not have sex with you. Thank you for understanding"

  • Just tell him? lol. He won't care I promise.

  • Form the words "I'm having my period." No big deal.

  • I'm on my period.

    Why can't girls just be direct?

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