How do men feel about women with 'high' body counts?

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What do you consider to be high? Would you not date/marry a girl with a 'high' body count/only hookup with her? Why?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Most men, even here, where they are relatively anonymous, aren't going to tell you the truth. I'm going to, though - and this is not MY preferences we're talking about, but rather men's as a whole. Of course, this means I'm making a generalization (or several), and that means you can find individual exceptions, but this won't change the fact of what the MAJORITY think.

Before you even hear what guys have to say, you must first realize that there are guys who have no interest in a relationship, with anyone, and whether they'd admit it or not, they just use women for sex - sometimes just once, and sometimes for an extended period of time, but they don't commit to anyone. These men usually don't care about women's body counts because they're not considering a relationship anyway, and, to put it bluntly, sluts with high body counts are preferable to them, because they can get sex from her easily and quickly and she probably won't hassle him much afterwards or expect much from him. From a "player's" point of view, a high body count girl just makes his job easier. But if you are looking for a relationship, then these men's opinion should be irrelevant to you, because they don't meet the initial criteria in the first place: they aren't offering relationships, to anyone

The other group of guys are those who would consider a relationship if they found a girl they liked and who they felt was worthy of a relationship. And while there ARE a small percentage of guys who will judge that worthiness purely on a woman's looks, MOST men look at the entire package when considering a serious relationship, and one of those things they look at, and one of the main and most common disqualifiers, is a high body count. MOST "relationship men" will not take a woman with a high body count seriously as a relationship partner. As I said, FEW will SAY that outright, because it's likely to start an argument and many women will try to publicly shame or "cancel" men who say that, but it's what those men are thinking.

What's potentially even worse for the woman, is that many of these same men will simply consider her as "for recreational use only" - meaning they'll still bang her if she's willing, but they won't ever see her as "relationship material."

There are a number of really good reasons for this - with statistics to back them up, but this post is already overly long, so I'll end it here. Just know that men have been trained (by women!) NOT to argue or shame women with high body counts in public in most situations, but instead, they've adapted. They simply use her for recreational sex, figuring she's made her choice to be promiscuous, and so there's no reason not to take advantage of that if it's being offered. He never has to confront her about being disqualified for a relationship, he simply never brings it up, because he never had any intention of offering one to her.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's the opposite of what lab coats showed to be female nature.

Lab coats showed that men naturally prefer same activity with different people, while women prefer new activity with the same people.

A man will be happy doing the same position with hundreds of women. A women's itch isn't scratched like that, normally in a species survival oriented female, female nature would rather do the same man in a thousand different positions.

And that's the way human species are more likely to survive. Women need the man to hang around and provide. Men have the urge to spread the seed.

If she's fucking around then she's not wife material. And she can be proud of it if she wishes to, she's only satisfying the seed spreaders. ﾠ

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Seems like the ones with some morals and values prefer a girl with a low body count. But the same can be said for the male whores who are hypocrites and want a girl who isn't as washed up and passed around as them. I am not proud of my body count of 2 but I’m glad its a low number. It’ll likely be 3 soon but i have no intentions of surpassing it. And i prefer my dudes be anywhere from virgins 0 to a body count of 5 or less

petitedollbabee · Accepted Answer

A man doesn’t base a woman’s worth on her body count, nor does he care about it. However, a boy does.

PositiveFlight · Answer

Sounds pretty dangerous. Must have been a horrific murder scene with a high body count like that.

IveGotTheSixG · Answer

I know a lady whose count is well into four digits. Guys flock to her, but not in a good way.

RobT312 · Answer

Doesn’t bother me or matter to me. My girlfriend and I had counts higher than what most people would like (not high but let’s say higher than 5) but those counts don’t change the chemistry and love you have for someone. The past is the past. Now we are married.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I think they are happier with experienced women.

Nuget · Answer

In general, guys hate women with high body counts. But what cracks me up is when guys say that women with high body counts will never get married.  And the list goes on and on...

lightbulb27 · Answer

my opinion lowers of men or women.

I think the whole concept of "body counts" is disgusting and wrong. That is a term used in war to count dead bodies. It doesn't say much about peoples ethics.

Scotty... beam me up, this place is nuked with corruption!!!

LazerBean · Answer

There's going to be more men on here than irl vocalizing that they will only have low body count women. The reality, though, is that most men do not care and likely won't even ask.

Berethor · Answer

Hos are dirty and likely to cheat, he more she had the worse it is.

Billlewis · Answer

I'd much rather date/serve a woman who's had sex with a lot of guys than a woman who hasn't had much sex at all.

abc3643 · Answer

Guess which one is the high "body count"?

OfMiceandMen · Answer

We love em, the more the merrier. If she's been with more than 50 people then it's starting to get a bit much.

I would not marry or hook-up as things have a tendency to fall off when body counts start getting up there.

JacobJordan · Answer

I have absolutely no interest in being with a woman who has so little respect for herself she just spreads her legs for multiple guys. also statistically any relationship with such a woman is literally doomed to failure. 1 to 2 partners (second being me) has a 70-90% chance of being healthy, happy and not ending. 3+ and the relationship has a 30% or lower chance of being healthy, happy and not ending.

If this doesn't make a ton of sense allow me to describe a scenario to you.

you walk into a room and in that room you see 2 men. both are exactly what you looking for in terms of looks, height, weight blah blah etc etc. HOWEVER 1 of them has 1 bad trait that will result in your relationship with him failing 70% or more of the time. the second does not have this trait as a result your relationship with that man has a 70-90% chance of being successful. which would would you pick?

Tim2nice · Answer

Only immature or uptight religious people care about body count. If I like a woman I couldn’t care if she’d been a prostitute. Her character, intellect and work ethics are more important to me.

exitseven · Answer

I think double digits is high for somebody in their early 20s. I would be more curious if they were one offs.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

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klpic · Answer

Guess it depends on how high. but mostly I would not mind. After all us men can have a high count as well

Nikki1989 · Answer

Depends on his maturity and insecurity levels.

sparklycoconut · Answer

my body count is over 20 and i have given up on counting and i don't really care how men feel about it and i don't know why anyone else cares what they think either.

jogeb907433 · Answer

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