Desired? Meh. Unless she's in my bed it makes no difference.
My past relationships, (except my ex-wife who was a year and a half older than me), have all been with younger women. 2 were 13 years difference, my current is 31 years difference.
Shocked? No. I seem to attract all types and ages, and I'm clueless as to why. They certainly wouldn't know anything about my bedroom skills or talents, or anything about the size of my package to desire me sexually from word one. Maybe it's because I'm decent and respectful toward them? Something some so called men, aren't. Maybe it's because I'm funny asf, fun to be around, and have good conversation skills? I haven't figured it out in 58 years, but I'm not question it. I don't really DO anything to attract them. They just seem to be there.
Maybe I'm just lucky? That really doesn't hold water for me though, since I can't seem to win the lottery, or a game of bingo, or a scratch off, or a raffle, or a hand of poker at the casino, or find a suitcase full of hundred dollar bills.
Apparently you don't allow messages from people you don't follow.
It's a complicated topic, and I'd rather discuss it in private.
I'm not *quite* in the age bracket you have in mind, just being 34.
I'd say that it will depend on the guy.
But I think many guys in that age bracket will probably be *sexually* attracted to a girl your age, although some will find the idea repulsive.
But I think you'll find that less of them are actually interested in an *actual* relationship with someone that young long term.
There's a significant age gap and it's difficult to find things in common to talk about etc.
Do you have a specific guy in mind, or are you just interested in guys in that age bracket in general?
And have you identified *what* exactly you find appealing about the age bracket?
If you're after a father figure that might narrow down the number of available partners for you.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would imagine when I get to my 40's or 50's, if a hot 18 year old desired me sexually, yes, I would be disgusted... if it ever stopped.
Times have changed now, I think I would be flattered more than anything. My chasing days are over, at least she would know she would be with someone who is solvent and secure and won’t go running off.
Neither disgusted nor shocked. I'd be flattered and happy.
I definitely feel flattered and get an ego boost when I've had attention from girls in that age range but thats it, not interested in taking it any further.
That would be very flattering. The closest I came was in a cocktail bar with my wife and a young woman (20-something) was there alone, in Seattle to see her sister. We chatted with her a bit and she mentioned she was single and looking. Then she said "I suppose you're taken."
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There's not much more to say. My wife and I were seated next to her at a fancy cocktail bar, and somehow we started talking. There was another time some years earlier when I briefly dated a much younger woman, very attractive, did a bit of nightclub singing. She was unmarried with an infant when I met her and decided she didn't have time to date. A few months later we happened to meet again and she indicated that she was interested, but I had met someone else by then. It was for the best, she wanted the house with the white picket fence and church on Sunday and that wasn't me at all.
I've experienced it. I was with a 25 year old woman for two years. It was very flattering.. At first, I couldn't believe that a young woman 30 years younger wanted anything to with this old man. I thought I was being pranked. I definitely wasn't.
I'd prefer her to be around 30 instead of 18, but of course it's great to be desirable to a young woman.
Flattered and appreciated,
I'm about to turn 50. I'd be flattered. Probably more than just a little.
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I had lots of women in their early 20's messaging me here and on facebook.
It's strange to think of a relationship together because we're at different stages and have different goals. Other than that the emotions and attraction were the same as dating women my own age.
I've sexted with a woman as young as 21, and dated a woman as old as 43.
They're both attractive to me.
I'd be happy if a younger woman desired me, but I'd be shocked if it ever happened.
I am 32 (will be 33 this year) and I am desired by a girl who is 20-23 years old. I am also attracted to her, but I think It will be weird thing for people around us.
It's something they really shouldn't indulge themselves in period.
When I go out I do sense some 18 or so year olds look at me with some desire. As I don't look my age at all, I look like I'm barely 30. So that adds up.
I'm generally attracted to college-grad ages like 24+ types and knows what they want.
It's flattering, but at the end of the day there isn't a relationship there outside of the bedroom.
No real interest in that young. Nothing in common
I love it and I feel more matched up and we have more in common than an older woman that can’t have kids
But of course I prefer them older
It's flattering but more common than you think :)
I bet most of them would really like it.
I’m fine with it.
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