How Do You Break Up With Somebody Who's A Dynamite In Bed?

I've always wondered what it's like to have that in a partner. Or be the partner. Given the amount of intimacy issues with me, that's not impossible 😂
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What if the offer of sex is not available outside a romantic relationship
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  • The issues leading to a breakup will be severe enough that it's worth it to give up the sex.

    That's been my experience.

    • Update: I jerk off.

  • Keep having sex with that person till something better comes along.

    • If you're not happy, then you should break up.

    • Thanks.

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  • That's a tough one. It would depend on why I felt the need to break up.

    • Why do you want to break up?

  • I dont think there's any such thing as sex good enough to overcome a bad relationship.

    Sure you can have GREAT sex - but if you're in a relationship and everything else sucks, then breaking up suddenly becomes surprisingly easy.

    • I'm just saying, I wonder if there really are people out there who let others abuse them because sex is good. I had a boyfriend that looked like Chris Brown which was a fantasy of mine for years, he knew he looked like him too. He was so good in bed and was a show off because he talked about how no one else made me this wet and kept pulling it out and putting it back in to tease me but he treated me like sh. t otherwise. He had a temper and his eyes would change when he got angry out of the blue. I kept trying to get him help and he said there was nothing wrong with him. I didn't stay because of the sex, I took him back three times because my female relatives and neighbors kept shaming me into taking him back because they were attracted to him. They told me how I was gonna die alone and how I complain too much. But after being grabbed in the throat and shouted at for no reason, I decided I'd rather not have my self esteem crushed, a.. beaten, as and sanity robbed by this psycho. He was also very hard to leave, he kept coming back and playing with my emotions but once I stood my ground and decided that I was the one who had to put up with him and not those on the outside who take up for him, I was gone.

  • Fck em one last time then move on

  • that is when you move them to friends with benefits status... find someone else for the Feels, but keep studmuffin for stuffing your hoohaa

  • I have done that. Fortunately, she made it easy for me to do it. She left town for a week, did not want to spend the night with me before she left, did not call to say goodbye. I texted her the next morning hoping that she had not yet embarked. She had not and said she would call me before she boarded the ship. She didn't. I knew she had not made me the highest priority in her life but this was just too much in my face. I packed up my stuff, left her a note, and vacated the premises.

  • You realize they are shitty person woth a nice dick n u move on.

  • can you help me with your question I don't think I'm understanding it right why can't you do any of the above are a wise guy just don't get that question please help

  • I have walked away from loads of relationship with people who are great in bed and I love sex, I also have a high sex drive. If someone has a problem breaking up with good sex they must not value their peace or are the terrible one in bed so they pride themselves on having a great sex partner. I will dump you and not feel bad about it, it was great while it lasted they, might hump you one more time and tell you to stop talking to me and I will mean it when I do.

  • I can assure you that if being good in bed is all that a woman brings to a relationship, it wouldn't be even a minor inconvenience to break up with her. I imagine it's much the same when genders are reversed.

  • Either phase out the sex gradually. Or have the hottest wildest sex and then boom... break up with them.
    Neither is my experience... just saying xD

  • It’s very difficult. Quite often you wind up in bed again.

    • I don’t understand. Can you explain the update?

    • Most people here are suggesting friends with benefits in this situation. But what if your partner isn't ready for that. What if this partner can only fuck you if you're in a relationship with them.

    • Then you have a difficult choice to make

  • Offer to demote them to fuck buddies.

  • I love sex, but it’s absolutely not a good reason to ever stay in a relationship.

  • Same way you would anyone else that you no long want to be In a Relationship with

  • Well just tell your boyfriend/girlfriend that you want to break up, it's best to just be honest.

  • Make him a friends with benefits and keep fucking him

  • Why would you want to?

  • You don't break up with them, you make them a "friend with benefits".

  • you can continue to have "casual" sex with an ex... after the breakup... no big deal, many people do it

  • It makes it harder to break up.

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