How do you control yourself, sexually?

[Anonymous]

I can’t keep my hands off my boyfriend, ever. We’ve been together years and it just gets worse and worse. We just settled down to watch TV tonight. He’s watching sports on his tablet and I’v got a film on. It lasted 10 minutes before I was bent over the sofa taking it from behind. We have sex 2/3 times a day on working days and 5/6 times when we are both off. I don’t want to leave the house when we are alone. If we go to a cinema or a restaurant I just think we could be doing better things at home so rush back. I wish I could function normally around him without getting myself worked up and jumping him. How do I control this?

[DonkeyDan]

Have you considered that you might have a hormone imbalance? Estrogen, progesterone and testosterone are the hormones in women that are responsible for female libido, if these or one of these are/is elevated it could account for your increased horniness.

[Asker]

No I haven’t considered this but thanks yes! I have thought something is wrong with my hormones just never linked the two

[DonkeyDan]

Maybe just get your GP to do a blood test, mahe sure there isn't anything else going on, hormone levels can be an indicator of many different things.

[Den1971]

I can sexually control myself not all the time but most of the time when I can't sexually control myself is when we're in bed the very first time I get my dick in the pussy and I come the first time after that it takes like 5 minutes and my dick's back hard again and that can go on for hours and then we'll fall asleep wake up do it again or I'll wake you up and we'll do it again and it's constantly goes on until somebody put the stop to it I get out of control sometimes

[DizzyDesii]

I just know deep down that im not ready. So i only do as much as i feel ready for. Its like how people budget their money to know what they can afford.

[Tiptoetamm]

I'm single at the moment but I'm the same way. I am very physically affectionate always have been always well be

[purplepoppy]

What does control yourself sexually mean? Do people actually do that

[slatyb]

Are you sure you want to? If you do, why?

[Citizenkirk]

Are you actually asking a question, or boasting?

[Asker]

Asking a question. Women don’t boast about things like that. I genuinely don’t have time for it and it’s impacting my life

[Citizenkirk]

Meditative breathing, yoga, are beneficial in establishing balance and consistency to your daily routine to supplement those physical stress release activities that excessive sexual engagements are interfering with. Bed rest good hydration and a balanced nutritional daily regimen would be a good place to start. Pilates can help focus mind and body, establishing equilibrium of balance and moderation that will be beneficial for muscle tone, respiration, and maintaining a consistent focus of mind in daily regimented exercise routines more structured and consistent then random spontaneous romping around under the covers that apparently stopped being fun for you when it started consuming more of your time then you feel as healthy, due 2 the spontaneous nature of these sexual exercise engagements interfering with your getting that consistent equilibrium that you seek. lacking the structure needed to maintain moderate healthful and beneficial release without overdoing it. There are even sex therapy and couples therapy programs and counselors that can help you refine and customIze your sexual -sensual conditioning and release regiments to a more realistic regimen accommodating your lifestyle, because it sounds like you're saying that these activities are too sporadic and to unpredictable for you to consider them routine or anything other than an impediment to a more balanced equilibrium in your life. I'm not hearing that you're doing a bad thing in your daily regimen, it sounds like you're saying that you're getting too much of a good thing, and relationship therapy is one option for streamlining those activities to a more moderate and regimented routine. Tai Chi and negative resistance training like lifting weights power walking swimming running are also good options to explore.

[Citizenkirk]

consuming more of your time then you feel as healthy, due 2 the spontaneous nature of these sexual exercise engagements interfering with your getting that consistent equilibrium that you seek. lacking the structure needed to maintain moderate healthful and beneficial release without overdoing it. There are even sex therapy and couples therapy programs and counselors that can help you refine and customIze your sexual -sensual conditioning and release regiments to a more realistic regimen accommodating your lifestyle, because it sounds like you're saying that these activities are too sporadic and to unpredictable for you to consider them routine or anything other than an impediment to a more balanced equilibrium in your life. I'm not hearing thalike any other and the Kamasutra the eastern Indian love manual is the oldest and most comprehensive reference material of this type the explorers love making from a physical activity of enjoyment and for me spiritual scientific and athletic perspective to explore coupling and sex from all different angles and to refine and improve each aspect of those activities to get the most out of your intimate engagements..

[CoolGuy7532]

I don't know if you can control it. You might both try meditation. Two to three times per day is probably the max. Anything more is too much.

[FilmGuy93]

Why would you want to "control" it?

[Asker]

Because it does impact my life. He works really early sometimes. I also have a job with a lot of hours we have kids it’s hardly great when you need to sneak off to the utility room for a quickie when you get home because you can’t wait until you go to bed.

[FilmGuy93]

Just find a way to get off on the anticipation of waiting. You don't need to give into the impulse whenever it hits you.

[Zebadee88]

Just enjoy it

[Fukaroo]

Masturbation before seeing them.

[Asker]

Doesn’t work I masturbate while seeing him too that makes things worse

[soe11]

For me no need to control because my girlfriend is alway ready if she got period or business trip then her best friend or her mom.
Her is very sexy too and live together in same roof.

[Ironic_Method]

I don't.

[Jamie05rhs]

"How do I control this?"
You don't! You ride it for all it's worth! :)

[convo_king89]

Finding something that really really controls your appetite. Don’t go to a McDonald’s and get a large meal, but rather a nice steak dinner.

[Xylem1992]

5/6 times a day eh? I assume he just cums steam on the 6th time.

A change in diet can help. The role of diet in our lives is underrated. Going vegetarian, or on a calorie deficit could help you.
Meditation may also help.
Counseling if the other measures failed.

[Twalli]

My girlfriend and I really want to go out on a date again. We haven't been able to since March of last year. We have as much sex as we want though

[EQisKEY]

Kendra Lust

[Pterodon]

Enjoy it while it lasts because it won’t

[Hanmakevi]

Multiple prostitutes

[Waldoe]

mmm I can't relate.. so I will just say, enjoy it while it lasts... because it won't last forever.

[Charliefretz329]

That sounds like heaven to me

[Charliefretz329]

It sounds like heaven to have a girl like you available. My drive is just as high but it’s straight torture for me because I have to masturbate for a release 95% of the time due to my wife’s waining interest in sex nowadays. I don’t know how to control it. I don’t know if it CAN be controlled. I've actually looked into Penectomy, (Penis Removal), as a solution. Castration, (testicle removal), would most definitely work for a man but with bad side effects. I dont know what would work for a girl except hormone therapy, or certain medications like anti-depressants. But meds cause side effects too… Good luck!

[EaterPeter]

Why are you two not married yet? Try that and you don't even have to control yourself. It's gonna happen it self. You will have to think other way around.

[jirwin7979]

if i had a girlfriend she would run im very touchy feely