How do you cope with a high sex drive without a partner?

I'm not into casual hookups and masturbation increases my urges.
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  • Self control and discipline can help. And staying off sites like this where people ask lots of sexually related questions would help, lol.

  • Yoga and meditation? Avoid pornography as well.

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  • Welcome, or should I say WelCUM to the Club!!!
    Even with my girl on girl hookups, I have a very high sex drive too.
    I'm constantly masturbating cause I'm so horny all the time. I actually like feeling horny all the time. It makes me feel alive!!! And if anything, I am a chronic masturbating maniac and will never stop masturbating as long as I live. I give myself the most explosive, leg shaking & mind-blowing orgasm that no one else can ever give me.
    You don't need a partner if you don't want one, but you do need to have regular orgasms for you sexual health and mental well-being.

    That said, invest in your masturbation to help you be more satisfied. Purchase the sex toys you need to do the job right and also to enhance your orgasms. Learn and experiment with new masturbation techniques so you are not always doing the same thing over and over. Get yourself a 9 inch lifelike dildo, a clit sucking toy and most definitely, get yourself a Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrator for On Demand Orgasms.
    And practice, practice, practice learning to have multiple orgasms and orgasm control.

    Sometimes I need to go a little more extreme, like having a masturbation marathon day.
    I'll watch all girl porn all day and masturbate nonstop so I keep CUMMING so many times in a row, nonstop, till I physically cannot CUM anymore and sometimes pass out.
    Other times I will practice orgasm control and EDGE myself over and over and over,
    10, 20, 30 times in a row till I can't take it anymore and desperately need to CUM and when I finally let myself CUM, ... Look Out!!! KABOOM!!! KABOOM!!! KABOOM!!!
    I CUM so hard and so long and so mind-blowing intense that my pussy starts pulsating with hard long awesome contractions and it feels like my throbbing clit is going to blow out of the top of my head.

    “Edging” is a sexual practice that allows a person to delay orgasm. Some people find that this technique makes their orgasm more intense, once it does occur.
    The practice usually follows this pattern:
    • A person is stimulated almost to the point of orgasm (“the edge”).
    • Stimulation is then reduced, so that the person does not actually climax.
    • Stimulation increases, bringing the person to the edge again.
    The steps continue until the person wants to reach orgasm.

    Edging, peaking, or surfing is a sexual technique whereby orgasm is controlled. It is practiced alone and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period without reaching climax. When the controlled orgasm is achieved, the physical sensations are greater as compared to conventional orgasm. When practicing alone in masturbation, orgasm control will heighten sexual pleasure. Another reason for practicing orgasm control is to extend the amount of time it takes to orgasm.
    Females can enjoy direct sexual stimulation for longer periods of time, as well as increasing frequency and intensity.

    Edging, involves masturbating up until the moment before reaching the plateau phase just before orgasm occurs, and then stopping suddenly before experiencing a climax and repeated continuously until orgasm is desired or needed. Another technique, commonly referred to as 'surfing', involves reaching the plateau phase and slowing down the stimulation to maintain a heightened level of sensation for an extended time.
    Repeating either of these techniques many times during a single masturbation session will result in a stronger, more intense orgasm.

    Orgasm control is more often possible with masturbation. This is because masturbation allows for individual control and not a reliance on a sexual partner to achieve orgasm.

    If you teach to enjoy each and every sexual sensation you feel when extending your masturbation sessions you will have longer, strong, and more satisfying orgasms.
    Learn to love masturbating and look forward to masturbating every chance you get.
    Watch your favorite Porn and Masturbate, Masturbate, Masturbte!!!

    THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH MASTURBATION!!!
    NEVER STOP MASTURBATING!!!

    How do you cope with a high sex drive without a partner?
    NEVER STOP MASTURBATING!!
    NEVER STOP MASTURBATING!!

    NEVER STOP MASTURBATING!!!

    How do you cope with a high sex drive without a partner?How do you cope with a high sex drive without a partner?

    NEVER STOP MASTURBATING!!!


    NEVER STOP MASTURBATING!!!

    NEVER STOP MASTURBATING!!!
    NEVER STOP MASTURBATING!!!
    • wasn't expecting to see this! 🤣

  • Masturbation or just acceptance of your situation... sex with someone just to relieve that might feel good in the moment, but me personally I'd rather go without than have sex I know I'll regret later

  • Get you one of those fucking Machines I guess

  • Lots of exercise might help. Have you considered some sex toys like a good vibe or dildo? They might be fun. Maybe try to find a friends with benefits relationship with a young guy that just wants sex and not too many attachments. How is your sex life otherwise?

  • Why is your sex drive so high what are you trying to achieve? If you're not into casual hookups which I don't condone, how come you don't have a partner? what type of orgasm are you trying to achieve because there is no special orgasm that is out there I've been through them all and believe me when I tell you knowing how to achieve a strong orgasm is a method that takes time and practice but I've learned how to achieve them and I know how to give a woman the same pleasure. So what is your explanation for such a high sex drive because in the end we all are just looking for sexual relief to get an orgasm and be done with it what more are you looking for in sex?

  • Get a toy.

  • Badly. Very badly.

    Then I married a girl with a much lower drive than me. 🤦‍♂️

  • I got 2 hands to help

  • Pick up a hobby.

    Learn an instrument.

    Do some online certifications, etc.

  • Masturbation.

  • I masturbate when I have time but that doesn’t mean I don’t need an actual partner for sex.

    • Amen

  • lotssssssssssssssssssssssssssss of masturbation

  • Oops, I read the subtitlle of your post after I started writing. Through circumstance and people moving in neighborhood I found myself masturbating by request as often as by choice * video and new MILF next door". Itis an added excitement when you are jerking off because someone wants to wrtch

  • Masturbated a lot. lol

    • Is that what u do?

  • How have you been dealing with it?

  • Masturbation with a toy. And exercise

  • Just masturbate a lot in a short periods of time so you it starts to feel boring and you get sick of it (temporarily) until you find someone with a matching sex drive willing to spread your legs and ride you like a rabbit whenever you crave for it.

  • Masturbation is my coping mechanism

  • Not masturbating , you will still get the urges.
    I have a friend like this , was talking about her earlier. She comes round when the need takes her. But like you say she masturbates to release the stress but just makes it want it more
    She comes round and we talk about things, her triggers. Only doing all that talking about it gets me horny. But I try to hide how I feel...
    Sadly have failed a couple of times.
    But like she said it's better coming to see me than roaming the street for sex...

  • I have had this problem. Its not ideal, but find some reliable friends with benefits.

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