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How do you dominate in bed?

I am interested to know how you dominate your partner while having sex
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I just tend to take over things. I remove her clothes, I initiate foreplay. If she gets into a position where I'm barely doing anything like cowgirl (something that teases me and makes me want to grab her), I lean up to lotus where we have more mutual control, and then gently dip her down to missionary.

    I might be an unusual dom though in that I have no sadistic component or masochistic component to me whatsoever. My desire to dominate situations is more to protect people. So the way I dominate in the bedroom is to protect and make the women with me feel safe and protected and in good hands.

    • So I don't do things like smack or choke or pull on her hair. That's dominance combined with sadism. That's the opposite of protecting as I see it. The reason I have a strong compulsion to step up to the plate and take charge is not to be on some power trip, but to protect people.

    • I test like so which might explain things better: == Results from bdsmtest. org == 97% Dominant 73% Vanilla 67% Daddy/Mommy 54% Voyeur 45% Owner 42% Experimentalist 37% Exhibitionist 35% Brat tamer 34% Master/Mistress 31% Primal (Hunter) 16% Ageplayer 1% Rigger 1% Brat 1% Non-monogamist 0% Rope bunny 0% Slave 0% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Submissive 0% Masochist 0% Degrader 0% Pet 0% Sadist 0% Switch

    • I also don't think of it as "dominating" her. I was trying to explain my confusion about why I tested so dominant in the past because I have no desire to dominate people. My stereotypical image of dom is someone who borderline abuses women on a power trip. Then one guy put it best in his response by saying, I desire to dominate situations, not other people. I want to protect people; I don't want to dominate people.

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  • 1.- Get in bed.

    2.- Assume the T-Pose to assert your dominance.

    3.- Sleep all night like that.

    what a flex...
    what a flex...

    • The girl: well let me show you how it's done *she ties my arms to the side of bed and legs to the bottom, making the perfect T pose*

Most Helpful Girls

  • I choke him lightly and ride him. My current partner is much bigger than me but I've flipped lighter guys with my legs and crawled on top. Id cuff him or blindfold him if he let me but he won't.

  • I lock his penis in a cage, peg him, and make him serve me. When he's been a good boy, he gets a reward.

    • 1. The reward is? 2. If you "lock" his penis in a cage, when he gets hard, doesn't it hurt like hell? (Or that's the point of locking) 3. How do you make him "serve" you?

    • @imuser Fantasizing things never hurts lol

    • @Abinav69 😂😂

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • being assertive and firm:))

    • Some details please, that's too generic

    • swear words and humiliation and ordering things to do

    • Things like?

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  • one is being a good lover communication and open-minded partner

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