Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health How do you f*** a cup but can’t f*** your wife?
Jesslin412 Yoda
So hubby was able to go out in the woods in his truck and do a semen sample to check his sperm but can’t get it up when we go out in the woods in his truck and try. I don’t understand. I realize I’m mad and not being supportive right now but I just can’t see any reason why. I don’t understand. Why does he get so nervous doing stuff? I don’t get it
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2 37Impotence issues and or lack of self confidence... maybe he doesn't want to have any intimate contact when you want it
He should have asked you to play with his cock to get a hardon.
Maybe spice things up
Tell husband the truth that feel less attractive if he fucks that cup
Maybe he just doesn't want to have sex, WHENEVER YOU WANT IT
Sounds like you need a new husband haha. But for real, maybe he fears for you that you will get caught but feels that if he gets caught alone it's no big deal
Performance anxiety
Girl he's gay and can't come to terms with it
Try to talk to him
Too much porn, masturbation, could do it.
As his imagination more used to his hand and porn, then real women.
It is curable, he just needs to admit it and seek help.
2 possibilities that come to mind, 1) attitude, if you're also angry when you're talking to him about it, not helping, approach it more in a loving "I want to fix this" way. 2) Pressure. By himself he doesn't have to worry about anything and is completely relaxed. Doesn't have to worry about your pleasure, what you think of him or his performance etc. There could be other factors also, but 2 that could be reasons for sure. Sit him down and have a talk about it. "I'm mad and not being supportive right now" - is a KILLER in itself. Think if it was reversed, would you get horny/wet over a angry unsupportive husband?
When you are in an intimate relationship, you should feel understood and accepted for who you are. You trust the other person and can open up completely to them. Intimacy is a sense of belonging. Share ideas, thoughts, and feelings with each other without fear.
See a doctor before this becomes a serious problem.
Sounds like it's time to find another husband
He is not a real man.
Sounds like he might have performance anxiety? That can be caused by body image among other things which kills the mood.