How do you feel about all of these "should I bang my step sister/brother questions lately? Is incest OK under this "no blood relation" technicality?

[CheerGirl38139]

Yeah...I KNOW..."they're not blood related, so it's not incest".

But is that really true?

I understand the biological justification loop hole...

I've seen a lot of these questions lately, and it seems like many of the opinions given are somewhere between "go for it, it's not like you're blood related" to "well it could be complicated, but at least you're not related".

I don't judge people for what they choose to do...

But I just think that people need to understand what they're actually asking, as well as what advice they're getting/giving.

As a person that has full, half, and step siblings... they are ALL FAMILY MEMBERS to me. I'm close to them. I love them. I trust them.

So as an example... when a girl is 18 and her step brother is 32... how does the fact that "they're not blood related" make it "ok" for them to do whatever? But if for instance, they had the same dad, even though they were not raised together because he had two completely different families with two different wives... instead of "OK" now all of a sudden it's off the charts 'wrong, sick, gross, etc.".

You can say she's "not related to be" if that makes you feel better... but in reality... she's YOUR SISTER by living arrangement (see image above), as your parents raised you as siblings. Think about it...

Again, I'm NOT judging...

Personally, I believe that people simply don't think these things through before they ask these questions or offer advice on them.

[Philyouup]

Family units are complicated, and a pain, but they are also where you learn about trust and non romantic love. No matter if you are blood or not, this is a unit where trust and safety exist, or should anyway.

Studies have shown that non related children of opposite sex raised together as a family unit ( including communes) rarely share a sexual attraction towards each other. It is protection that evolved over time and you have to wonder why, and it to protect the family genetically and functionally.

Also Don't shit where you eat. Not at work, not at home. Sex complicates things way more than they need to be. And in a family unit, this is destructive.

Sex between the child and the adult figure is damaging and violates the power trust/balance within a family.

Sex between genetically unrelated siblings is also a violation of trust that the adults have with the kids, and the trust that is shared between these siblings.. There are no credible physiological studies that have found these "non related Incest" relationships as healthy.. it comes down to "Don't shit where you eat"

Blood related or not, Children and adults that grow as a family can only be harmed by Incest.. Don't fuck you sister\brother, as there are no "steps or halves" in a family..

[CheerGirl38139]

Geezus. Finally someone gets it.

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[Philyouup]

Danke

[sonnypie]

Haven't seen these questions, but I feel like it's something that should be discussed as divorce and remarry is geting more common by each year it seems, and since the world becomes more and more "sexually liberated" each year aswell. As for my feelings on the matter. It's mixed. I'm a firm believer in autonomy (as in the freedom to choose rules an principles for oneself, not the freedom to do whatever you want), so I would probably say that most things are okey as long as they don't conflict with the individual values, and affects outside individual autonomy. However, its impossible for me with the knowledge i currently lack to comment on what kind of problems this will turn into. The only experience I have on the matter is one where my dad dated the mother, and my littlebrother dated the daughter. It got awkward when my dad and the mother stopped dating, and my brother and the daughter stopped dating too after just a few weeks because of the problems/awkwardness between my dad and the mother

[CheerGirl38139]

thanks

[lostgirl_searching]

I 100% agree with you. My parents and I were just talking about this because my mom has a big family and some of them are not blood related but that doesn't give it a " okay" to date or whatever. I still see it as being wrong.
This actually happened though ( that's why I mentioned my mom ) her cousin ( not blood related ) kissed her older sister ( also not blood related ) on the lips and then tried to lay in bed with her. My mom yelled at him and told her parents on him. They even kicked him out because it is wrong to do something like that.

[Scarlet_]

I need to be honest. I have no idea what you're talking about, but if it's family related I'd say that it isn't okay. Our purpose is to reproduce with others, not to have sexual pleasures with your family members. I take intercourse personally and hate it whenever people take it lightly. To me and maybe some certain people it's quite a sacred bonding tradition only to reproduce.

[Anonymous]

If the non-related kids get married FIRST, does that prevent the single mum parent of one kid marrying the single dad of the other kid?

Bearing in mind, the two single parents MAY have met because of the kids meeting first.

[CheerGirl38139]

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[Opinion Owner]

Also ther is a HUGE difference between step-sibling and half-sibling!

[CheerGirl38139]

Is there? That's why I posted this question. Biologically, sure. But practically, not necessarily.

[Opinion Owner]

Half siblings share a common parent. Step siblings are not related and have no common parent. This is a genealogical fact, not made up by me. My brother dogbert444 has spent much time digging up our ancestry.

[CheerGirl38139]

DUDE... COME ON... I know you're a smart person. I clearly already acknowledge the biological difference. What is the deal with reading comprehension of this community. Geezus. I even posted an image that lays out the PRACTICAL "definition" of "incest". I know what the fuck the definitions of full, half, and step-sibling are. LOL.

[Opinion Owner]

As an example, my mum is, in reality, a single parent. If I married my boyfriend, that would make him and me husband and wife. If, in the future, my BF's mum passed away, does that stop my mum and his dad from marrying? If not, and they did marry, it would make us husband and wife, and also step brother and step sister.

[CheerGirl38139]

I even stated in the text that I PERSONALLY HAVE... full, half, and step siblings. What would lead you to believe I don't know the difference?

[Opinion Owner]

The main question, AFAIK, is "Is it wrong to marry my step sister/brother". My answer is, "It is NOT wrong to BE married to a step sister/brother".

[CheerGirl38139]

Who said marry? The question says BANG, not marry...

[Opinion Owner]

The same thing applies. Two kids meet and are banging regularly. Like my boyfriend and me! Does it suddenly become taboo if their respective single parents bang? Or get married?

[CheerGirl38139]

The scenario is two kids being raised together as brother and sister... even tho they aren't blood related. They were raised as brother and sister... at least in the family unit sense... then they decide to start a sexual relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

The answer is: It may be illegal It may be, "at your own risk" It may be fine. All depends on your country and what is or is not, socially and/or legally acceptable. Personally, it does not really interest me. I just think laterally about the possible scenarios.

[Gagname]

Wow @juicyjessie, what a great question/idea that I’ve never seen anyone ever ask/bring up at all!

[katiesmuff]

Like you said if the person is not a blood relative it isn't legally incest and the many reasons for not allowing incest cannot happen unless they are blood relatives so let the step kids fuck their brains out.

[CheerGirl38139]

OK. That wasn't my point, but I respect your opinion.

[katiesmuff]

Thank you as your remark was very thoughful! Another point to bring up is the reason for incest law at all and that is the possible medical problems coming to offspring of blood relatives making kids. If it were not for that reason even the law wouldn't care who was having sex with whol I do see your point with this question however and I personally know that I could never see me getting involved with a blood or step relative.

[AthleticMom]

Same sorts probably pee in bed so lazy they are

[CheerGirl38139]

LOL, well there's one way to look at it.

[OHPOORBABY]

I think the closer you are related the more you should steer towards oral

[CheerGirl38139]

Hilarious

[OHPOORBABY]

It's funny but you know it's true

[Maybenena]

I was raised a pretty conservative christian. By Israelite law that is incest.

[Andrea89]

Yes it's ok

[Hotscorpio3]

Would you fuck your siblings?

[Andrea89]

@Hotscorpio3 already fucked my brother

[Hotscorpio3]

Add me

[Romeo0071234]

Add me too

[anmari2001]

Yeah if you are mature and responsible enough for such relationship, besides medical reasons why not

[CheerGirl38139]

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[Blonde401]

Gag is weird.

[CheerGirl38139]

and a lot of them lack basic reading skills.

[Blonde401]

Very true!

[bente2]

I think it depends on when you became a family. Say you grew up together, became a family at 5-15 yo, that’s weird af.

But 15+? That’s ok by me.

[CheerGirl38139]

I guess that makes some sense

[nishasingh1234]

I think everyone has right to live his/her own life the way he/she wants. I don't think there is anything wrong with incest. I am not doing it but I don't judge either. There is nothing wrong in sleeping with step sister/brother and even siblings too.

[bldballs22]

I think incest is ok

[Mmmmmmb78]

I'm aware that it's not considered incest if it's a stepsister/brother, as there is no blood relationship.

But I think it should be OK. I've heard of people banging their in laws.

[Chiral]

As far as I understand, the moral problem with incest is that it historically has led to an increase in congenital illnesses. Most peoples natural aversion to the notion of sex with a family member can be seen as an evolutionary mechanism to promote genetic diversity. The fact that it can be overcome by some, or sometimes be absent altogether, is probably an evolutionary back-up strategy to ensure survival of the group in near-extinction scenarios.

In light of this, incest if practised using a reliable modern form of contraception is not problematic in any way. This assumes the usual conditions of non-abusive sexual relations are met, namely, consensual sex where all parties are mature and able to meaningfully give consent.

[Cricket74]

Eh. Let them sort it out. Sex is about trust and who can you trust more than family. In some cultures an Uncle or grand parent is the first to initiate sex with the child. Europeans Americans are just prudish.

[CheerGirl38139]

point taken.

[HornyWoman]

Ewee

[robotscarecrow]

Consensual incest, whether blood or not, is fine. If siblings want to fuck, let'em fuck. It's no concern of mine. It's not hurting me, ya know?

[CheerGirl38139]

true, but what about the family dynamic in general?

[robotscarecrow]

Resentment from family should be expected in most families if siblings decide to come out with their activities. But if they keep it secret. Who's the wiser?

[The_Underground_Man]

I think it is a bad idea more often than not, and somewhat of a perversion considering that evolution conditioned human beings not to be sexually attracted toward those they are raised together with. Even if they are not blood related, it should go without saying that this will only destabilize the family unit and bring about disorder. Even so, I cannot necessarily blame people and especially teenagers for doing it. Hell if you were my stepsister I would totally be trying to bang you at all costs. I'd consider it revenge against the parental units for tearing our families apart.

[CheerGirl38139]

Revenge against the parents is one that I haven't heard.

[The_Underground_Man]

Make no mistake, if my father divorced my mom I would literally kill him to avenge her honor. Then I would kill myself because the thought of my parents no longer being together would be too much to bear. Honestly, I don't understand how you children of divorcees and mixed families are able to do it. It would be too much for me. You are certainly much stronger than I am.

[CheerGirl38139]

Geeezz dude.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

Iran not incest. The reason why incest is bad (and illegal) is because it causes generic deformations to the offspring. If there’s no genetic link between step siblings, then it’s not incestuous by practical and biological standards. Also, the idea of a hypothetical scenario where if 2 parents aren’t married wouldn’t make it incestuous should apply if they are married because the only factor is that the parents are actually married (didn’t word that right, but fuck it). As for the practical side of it, probably not a good idea for a bunch of reasons. But I think she plays a big part into it.

With that said, if you want to hear some shit that’s really weird, I heard of identical twins who married identical twins... that means that each of their children that are the same gender, by technicality, would be the same person... or just twins. But the 1st 1 sounds cooler

[LeeKenz]

How is it when I ask a question regarding incest it’s taken down for being too graphic?

[CheerGirl38139]

You can't post questions that "glorify" (promote) incest. The questions I'm referring to are about step siblings... which legally isn't "incest". I chose to use that word to make a point that in the practical sense... it is... or can be. So why do so many people say "Go for it. You're not related."? I don't get it. I consider my step siblings and step dad to be my family... blood or not.

[LeeKenz]

I didn’t glorify it though... but I was raped by my step brother so my views and thoughts on incest things are skewed

[CheerGirl38139]

You'd have to ask an admin why they removed your specific questions. My question here is basically asking what people think of all of the "my step sister is hot. Should I fuck her?"... questions.

[LeeKenz]

Yeah I know

[Skadouchebag]

"I don't judge people by what they choose to do"

... really? SO you wouldn't judge a person for choosing to kill someone?

[Skadouchebag]

Also, if it weren't incest then it wouldn't feature so prominently in incest porn.

[CheerGirl38139]

Hyperbole much?

[CheerGirl38139]

I know you can read dude. If you read the whole thing, it's not ME that is saying that "step sibling sex isn't incest" - it's half of these other people. I said, that I don't draw a line between my full, half, and step siblings. They are ALL FAMILY. Hence the reason for the posted image. So calm your tits Felicia.

[ScottieO]

The guy has douchebag right in his name. So, yeah :D

[Skadouchebag]

@CheerGirl38139 I know it wasn't you. My statement was more directed at the mindset itself. I guess what I should've said was "Does that mean *this guy* wouldn't judge a person for choosing to kill someone?" @ScottieO I have "douchebag" in my name because I gave myself a username designed to make you laugh.

[KatherineJ]

I still find it revolting.

[CheerGirl38139]

I don't find it revolting, but I do find people to be pretty naive and/or obtuse in these matters.

[KatherineJ]

Don’t get me wrong, I know it isn’t technically immoral, but still.

[CheerGirl38139]

Exactly

[Skadouchebag]

What do you mean "not immoral"?

[owens97]

in my opinion as long as both consent to it and r either both underage like 17 or both adults like here its 18 then its fine if thats what they want to do if its blood related incest i would seriously reconsider there actions but again can't stop them so the only advice i can give is the same and for in both instances especially to use protection as much as possible cause not only do u already not want a kid how awkard and embarrassing and how much trouble could u get into if u did with someone like that

[HarleyQuinn143]

I believe if its step its ok

[BobbyC65]

It is not incest if your step related no blood tie's with the family.

[BobbyC65]

Yes I did read it. So don't call me a lair.

[CheerGirl38139]

If you did, then your reading comprehension is severely lacking.

[BobbyC65]

My opinion stands no matter what.

[CheerGirl38139]

Listen man, I clearly stated that I know that there is a legal definition of what is normally considered "incest" - that was NOT the question. So... setting the WORD INCEST aside... seems like some people are hanging up on that word, and that word is NOT the point. Is it ALWAYS OK to have sex with a step relative no matter what? Age? Relationship? Living circumstance? Just because they're not "blood related"?

[BobbyC65]

Try being nice.

[lotje]

Incest is with family. If it is not family it is not incest.

Otherwise the definition of incest or family needs to be changed.

[CheerGirl38139]

Please read the full question. The very first line is: "Yeah... I KNOW..."they're not blood related, so it's not incest".

[CheerGirl38139]

if you read the full question, you'll notice where I state that I consider my full, half, AND step siblings to be MY FAMILY.

[lotje]

If you are adopted by them it is family and incest. If not then officially speaking not. But if you want to consider it incest feel free.

[CheerGirl38139]

I get your answer. Like some others, you're getting hung up on the word, and not addressing the actual situation. If a boy and girl are raised from little kids as brother and sister, then even tho not blood related, they are effectively... brother and sister. I thought about this earlier. I have had a stepdad since I was little. I refer to him and my mom as "my parents". He refers to me as "out daughter" (meaning he and my mom) - but he's not my biological father. What if...(God forbid) my mom had tragically died when I was 18? Would it be OK for my stepdad and I to start a sexual relationship because "it's not incest"? It's just not black and white - and I think people are missing that.

[CheerGirl38139]

our* daughter.

[DeezNutz33]

That's a really interesting point I think the distinction lies in how long they lived together and how old they were when their families joined

[DeezNutz33]

Also whether it's just sexual attraction or actual romantic attraction

[CheerGirl38139]

I'd say that's fair.

[Waffles731]

I guess it depends on if they were raised together.
Like if your mom or dad remarries when you are 22 and your step sister is 23, its not that big a deal, if you were raised together its kinda weird

[CheerGirl38139]

good point

[Dxk007]

Well, I haven't read the details but, incest is fine if, they're not related in blood and they're the right age unless, they're announcing it to the society.

[CheerGirl38139]

Read the details. If step siblings are raised as brother and sister in a family unit.

[Dxk007]

Well, after reading the details and, sex between someone from the same household no matter they're not the same blood isn't acceptable. Well, there a trillion people to choose from so, having sex with a family member is ridiculous.

[CheerGirl38139]

And there you have it

[CheerGirl38139]

And there you go.

[Dxk007]

I didn't get u🤔

[olderbudweiser]

Apart from potential genetic issues i dont see why not as long as its fully consensual

[Pallavimoon]

Incest is good when not forced

[Steve37]

That's just creepy to me.

[CheerGirl38139]

I just think it's not thought through. It's just letting natural curiosity and sexual arousal do your thinking for you.

[Steve37]

Yep... I agree.

[britpop]

I think it's dodgy territory

[CheerGirl38139]

for sure.

[britpop]

I completely agree with what you're saying I got your back

[CheerGirl38139]

what's frustrating is the lack of reading comprehension in this place, LOL

[britpop]

Lol ikr

[GayHowellMeme]

It’s fine

[CheerGirl38139]

What's fine exactly?

[SportsBrah]

I think that sexual relationships in the family ruin the family dynamic. Marry someone from outside your family and make babies with them to add more family to your already existing family, dont just have sex with your family lmao.

[CheerGirl38139]

thank you

[jjchot]

I would do it

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

I think there are a lot more variables into a question like this than a flat yes or no from what’s is given. How long have they been living as a family, what is the blood relation and so on. I think the larger issue that arises is the possibility of deformity in the genetic line when individuals procreate within the same direct genetic pool. Examples being many centuries of royalty with keeping it very close within the family.

[CheerGirl38139]

thanks

[Nachowedgie]

If you're not blood related it's not incest

[CheerGirl38139]

SMH... please read the question update.

[Nachowedgie]

1. I posted before you updated 2. My opinion still stays the same

[CheerGirl38139]

OK, so since it's not "incest" by legal definition , its OK? Age limit? Living circumstances? You're missing the point of the question.

[Nachowedgie]

Yes it's OK, Age limit us the same as normal standards, if she's legal it's no one's business what happens. Living circumstances are irrelevant. I'm not.

[masterkamasutra]

Incest are fine if no blood relations.

[CheerGirl38139]

Fine? The only issue is if they're "blood related" ... otherwise, anything goes?

[masterkamasutra]

yes.

[CheerGirl38139]

So... if step siblings that were raised together from the time they were little kids decide to start having sex, that's totally fine... but if half siblings that are ten years apart and were NOT raised together did it... that would be "wrong"?

[masterkamasutra]

i think boundary is kept in between family, some allow a lot some not at all, depend on personal preferences.

[Faze1]

Some of best porn I've seen but wouldn't recommend that

[CheerGirl38139]

LOL.

[bwiemz]

i believe that it is the siblings choice and as long as the both agree upon it with no qualms. the laws and standard of society shouldn't be able to deny them or single them out and ridicule them for their decision. However bother parties must agree upon this before doing it and must have no regrets about and if that is the case i am perfectly okay with it

[Mari_01]

I think as long as they aren’t blood related or grew up together it’s not wrong. However if they’re step siblings yet they grew up with each other in their childhood I believe that would be considered wrong :/