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  • Not for me.

  • I feel really good about it.

  • It's great.

  • I like it just fine. It is better if you actually love the other person however.

  • A-Okay

  • I personally think waiting for "saving your virginity until marriage" is a worthless notion. We're all human and have sexual desires. There's a reason that sexual desires arise right during puberty. It's natural to desire and want sex. It's not natural to hold out until you're "contracted" and bonded with someone. Marriage is a human made concept and while I'm all for it and love the idea of it to the point where I have a dream proprosal and wedding in mind, I would not hold out on my desires just so someone knows "I'm their first." No mature and intelligent person would judge you if you've had sex before, especially if they're in the same boat. What people DO judge others for is when they've slept around too much and pretty much let anyone in their pants. That's kind of dirty to think about. As long as you have sex with people you thinking of for long term relationships, there's no harm in it.

  • i love it

  • So called conservative/traditional men love it till they want to marry and to settle down with a virgin/non promiscuos women

  • Fine for me.

  • I love it.

  • why wait and find out after marriage that you don't match?

  • I think it’s ok.

  • That’s not a good idea but it happened

  • I am from a traditional background.. but as soon as i had my real first girlfriend in high school that went out the window. Any person that wants to wait.. I give them the most respect especially this day and age. Depends if you are ready or not... if you are go for it.. but don't live to regret it

  • I think ots tempting, I belive God wouldn't deprive us of anything good or pleasurable unless it wasn't good for us, I belive he created sex to be enjoyed very much, but between you and your husband or wife. In his view the person you love. Which not many people find fault with, sex has been perverted from what it was an twisted into what it is now. Devil took something beautiful and made it ugly and a Lotta p get hurt and used because of it.

    Be Iv chosen to wait till marriage, I just believe the world offered me 1 deal and God offered me another 1 appeared go be pleasurable and promises all these good times but I see so many people going through heartbreaks and drama its like, their , love, is an imitation of God's offer. And I belive his is the way ,, love,, really is supposed to be, so I said I'd wait for someone who do it for me. It gets hard at times you get lonely but I just know the world won't satisfy what I really want in the heart maybe rhe flesh but the world don't care about our hearts it lies.

  • I had premarital sex with a bit older lady, perhaps we both wanted to satisfy ourselves. In view of it, I can't condemn such a relation.

  • I'm not against it...

  • Not Christian, not something I'd want to engage in, and, especially these days, not wise.

  • It existed before marriage existed lol

  • As I believe in God's commandments, my answer is obvious.

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