How do you feel about rope play in the bedroom (light bondage, submission)?
When and how is the best/most proper time to bring this topic up? To jump into a relationship and wait, or be up front in the very beginning of talking to someone new? Clearly it's something I enjoy, and I would hate to get into a serious relationship with someone who has a distaste for it or even worse freaks out about it. To have someone stop all communication after commiting so much time to start a relationship with each other, such a waste. Pass along your own thoughts on this.
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What Girls Said
(21)I tend to bring it up discreetly to gauge their interest. After we've been sleeping together for a while I'll suggest watching a movie I know someone's tied up in and joke that he should do that to me (or I might want to do that to him) and see how he reacts.
I'm up for role play but no bondage.
Hell yeah. I'm all in 😍
I'm always dominant, but I'm not really into bondage, I prefer different type of submission.
I have a strong phobia of being heavily restrained, so I'd rather know before I fall for him. Though I get why it's a tough conversation.
i am in
It's fine if you know what you are doing. But this question is better for an adult, kink site like Fetlife. com
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Depends on the girl but ease into it with me. It's not first month stuff. Get comfortable with sex then bring it up. Unless it's a deal breaker for you, be upfront so you know if it's going to work out.