How do you feel when you see a person whom you're sexually attracted to (assuming you can't have sex with them)?

I've heard some people who enjoy it a lot & I know some people get really upset

How do you feel when you see a person whom you're sexually attracted to (assuming you can't have sex with them)?
I enjoy it a lot
Vote A
I enjoy it
Vote B
I feel negatively
Vote C
I feel very negatively
Vote D
I feel indifferent
Vote E
I feel 50/50 positive/negative
Vote F
I'm asexual
Vote G
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I enjoy it a lot. That said, I think that describes at least a third of the women I hang out with. This is assuming a shallow and fun sort of sexual attraction, nothing more. A deeper one that causes me to just focus on one girl can be more problematic. For me it's miserable to be in a bar with all guys, for example. When I find myself in that situation, even a lovely girl who walks in with a guy she's with cheers me up a bit, if only to have something more pleasant to look at than a bunch of drunk dudes.

  • It’s annoying seeing what you can’t have, like window shopping

    • Did you vote?

    • Yeah

Most Helpful Girls

  • I get a little excited (internally) and il make slight glances now and then thinking wow. Especially because I don't often find a guy I'm really attracted to. So I enjoy the view when it does happen and basically move on with my life.

  • First one, because looking at attractive people is pleasant.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • A
    I make them friends, the next best thing

  • I can't get past this picture...

  • I could stare at them all day. But of course it's better if I can have him.

  • I get upset, not because I can't have sex with him, but because I can't control my body's reaction

  • Admire and then move on

  • I voted A

  • I've never been sexually attracted to anyone

  • I'm asexual

  • i avoid them

  • Hard dislike for me

  • I am sexually attracted to most girls lol
    Women are especially sexy nowadays.

    BUT, I know self-control, and I realize that I probably wouldn't like most of them

  • I admire her, but I don't lose my shit over it.

  • I love girls, period. Ergo, I'm aroused by just about any girl. (Sorry!) However, girls don't like me back. Ever. I've been without a girl for... ever. Thus, I feel like the underdog, black sheep, ugly, etc.

  • It depends on whether or not they return the interest. If they do I enjoy it. If not it can be painful. But it still may be overall enjoyable if I appreciate their company

  • I get upset. All the time, every day. With every pretty girl I see.

    • Why?

    • Because pretty girls/females are the closest thing to perfection that exists on this Earth in human form and we, as males, desire something special with them so badly. It's just how it is. Evolution and the universe or God or whoever just... made males that way, just like it made females menstruate and have less hair and all that and whatever.
      This clip from the movie Beautiful Girls explains a bit of it, I guess.
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uyo69utc9bM

    • He described it to sound positive though but you said you get upset

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  • Why is every question you ask on sex?

    Is that what you think about all day?

    • I'm an influencer in the sexuality category. It's my job.

    • Alright I see

    • I kind if doubt they require you to ask questions constantly as an influencer, and even then it's not really a job, lol. Unless they're paying you.

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  • I enjoy it.
    Come on guys, dream is free.
    And I don't know why I should upset a girl just because she is beautiful or I love her, but she loves other person.
    To love is a great feeling, even in that case.
    Furthermore, feeling it gives you a valuable information about what type of girls you like most, so as you can search for women with those qualities. ;)

  • I don't get sexually attracted to women with whom I have not spoken at length. I'm just not into blow up dolls, real or artificial.

  • I move on... no point in thinking more about it

  • That pic is amazing 🤣

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