How do you forgive yourself for being kind to someone who abused that kindness?

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“Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice. Shame on me.” Sort of situation. how do I forgive myself for being too kind/naive/trusting/forgiving?

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Looks like you don't forgive yourself for acting dump, make sense.

DonkeyDan · Accepted Answer

You shouldn't be angry with yourself for being a kind person, quickest way to become a bitter person.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I know its cliche but go to a professional who is specialized in this kind of thing.

Anonymous · Answer

Focus on forgiving them?

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