How do you get a friend with benefit?

How do you start a conversation or a deal with him/her to be you friends with benefits? Started from a friend? Or some stranger?
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just wanna add another question into this, so how do you end it? Any kind of relationship
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  • All you have to do is pick a guy and tell him what you want most guys just want to fuck anyway so they'll do it although I wouldn't recommend it for you

  • Easiest way is too find a guy in a bar o r pub, flirt with him, let him know you are horny.
    while you are fucking him, let me know how excited he gets you, how good his cock feels, that you would love to fuck him again.

  • It’s called communication, just ask!
    Tell him what you are looking for and if that’s what he’s looking for also, you just did it.
    Ending it, again, just talk to him tell him it’s not working and we have to end.

  • Get an attractive male friend. After some time start flirting with him. A bit later start making dirty jokes and talking with him about sex. After some time invite him into your house (or go into his house) where only both of you are. Go to the shower then after taking a shower go out just wearing a bath towel. Let towel to fall down while he is watching. Take his hand and put it on your boobs. Kiss him.

  • It's really simple if you are a girl. Firstly you talk normally with him. Than you send him your normal pictures while chatting saying look how bored I am. Than you say things like,"oo I am so lonely. I haven't had sex in soo long time". That time he'll get really uncomfortable. Than you try to seduce him some more with your pictures. Maybe he'll not talk to you at the moment coz he'll think that you are trying to push him in some trap. But trust me he won't stop thinking and fantasizing about you. 1-2 days later you ask him for sex. And BAMMM. You got him.
    by the way I'M ALSO LOOKING FOR A FRIEND WITH BENIFIT SO IF YOU ARE OK WITH IT. DO TEXT ME.

  • you're an attractive woman you shouldn't find it difficult to find men for this

  • I have no idea, I'm currently looking for a friend with benefits

  • You just start out as friends be a little flirty but ask them your not interested in a full relationship. But still would like to
    do stuff. Then casually mention you want sexual stuff

    • Just be up front with the person

  • i wish i knew but not gonna happen for me

  • You are looking for a friend with benefits... Well I'm here lol

  • You find someone your attracted to and you discuss it. Tell them how your feeling and what your thinking. Also it usually ends when you either start dating or start dating someone else

  • Friend or stranger... ask if they wanna fuck no questions ask.

  • No idea since none of my friends are retired.

  • I’m also wondering what should I say to my friends. I desperately need some friends with benefits..

  • When you find out let me know, I would love a friends with benefits

  • I don't know. I wish I did because I sure would like one. If you're taking volunteers... I volunteer. 😬

  • Very carefully and it's an awkward subject

  • You only need is pyshical attraction, have good sex, dont care about feelings, have good sex again that's it, I can be your friend with benefits I have a big thick cock...

  • start with a friend you trust, talk with them. tell them what you want and need

    • to end it just be honest

  • Not sure myself, but as you are over the pond that counts me out.

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