How do you get rid of the guilty conscience inside you after sleeping with someone else?

Every time I had sex with another man, I feel every guilty. I would be sick emotionally and mentally, almost like a depressed state for couple days. I love everything that builds up to the point of engaging in sexual intercourse and the sexual acts are mind blowing, but after the sex subsided I feel guilty.

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Superb Opinion

  • By accepting the fact that you are wrong and by being honest , you clearly don’t love your partner if you have been cheating on them. You are cheating because something is missing in your current relationship with your partner , you only like the convenience of your partner and only love what you can receive from your partner, sadly making you a selfish person that wants your cake and wants to eat it to , basically your way or no way , you might think you love your partner , but the truth is , you only love yourself. You will never experience true love with anyone , if you can’t remove selfishness. We all have selfishness inside of ourselves , and it’s very easy to be selfish. Learning to remove selfishness is not easy for most people to do , you have to accept the fact that you can be wrong and admit to yourself that you are selfish and sometimes it takes suffering the consequences of your actions to understand this. How would you feel if your partner was cheating on you behind your back? Why it’s always best to wear your partners’ shoes before making decisions when being in a committed relationship with anyone. What you don’t want your partner doing to you , needs to be the same boundaries for you as well or you will just be wasting Your time and theirs. You are better off just staying single , if you can’t be honest with yourself and your partner. Keeping secrets and lies is only really hurting yourself , that’s why you feel guilty of your actions , because you know what you are doing is wrong. And you can’t be honest. If you want someone to give your their heart , you have to give them your heart the same way or it’s just a waste of time. Not one person on this planet is perfect , we are all imperfect people , we all make mistakes , you will always feel guilty of your actions until you learn to be honest. Why I no longer jump into relationships with girls’ mainly for this reason. Most people assume they want love and want to experience true love , but only on their terms , you can’t expect someone to give to you if you can’t give to them , Love only grows when 2 people make each other their top priority over everyone else in this world , Accepting the fact that you can be right and wrong and understanding you can’t always be right. Learn to remove selfishness from within yourself and learn to be honest with yourself and your partner , if not you will keep continuing having failed relationships because you only care about yourself. Love only comes from choosing someone the same way you want them to choose you. You will never be happy or content with yourself , if you constantly hold
    Lies and secrets and choosing to be selfish.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You feel guilty because you know it's wrong and you shouldn't be doing it. Your conscience is trying to tell you something I think you already know. All I can recommend is confess to your boyfriend or husband and hope he is willing to forgive and work through it. But sorry this is something you should not be doing.

Most Helpful Girl

  • You didn’t mention if this is a cheating situation or a mutual extramarital (poly) type thing. You feel guilty because you’ve been taught that sex with others is a sin or something bad. I always hear women say “isn’t it romantic that these birds mate for life?” And I alway reply to them, “yes, but they also don’t have to talk to each other.”
    It’s in our human nature to seek the things we need be it love sex food shelter etc and if we can’t get that from our partner then it’s natural to seek those things in others.
    Don’t look at the world as right and wrong because it isn’t. Nothing is.

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  • Just make sure the guy is right for you and wants more than a hookup.

  • If you are saying you are in a relationship and you are cheating on that person... and you want to know how to feel less guilty... you can't. You are a pig and a disgusting cheater. You deserve to feel guilty. You deserve for the person you claim to be with finding out and him dumping you.

  • feel guilty for cheating, become loyal.

    feel guilty for sex? don't fight it obey it and wait until wedding.

    guilt after wedding, remind yourself you may "now kiss the bride".

  • Why feel guilty? I don’t get it? You’re not committing a crime

  • By not doing it

  • You should feel guilty. Your husband deserves better

  • You feel guilty for a reason dummy

  • You're cheating, wow at 34, it's not just the new generation, can't trust any of these women 🤦🏽dear lord help us all, eat the guilt and swallow it with no advice because no advice gonna help your mistakes 💯👌🏼

  • If you're cheating, it's because you scratched that itch and since you're no longer horny, your mind is clear and you know it's wrong.
    If you aren't cheating and just having various ONS you realize that you aren't valuing sex enough.

  • Depends. Are you cheating or have you discussed it with your partner?

    • Cheating

    • Hot! But if you're suffering from a guilty conscience it won't go away. You'll need to come clean and hope he's ok with it.

  • Be a sociopath. Lol. Conscience? Sounds gay as fuck

  • You just have to learn to live with it

  • You don't! It remains with you till the end of your life!

  • Stop thinking about it

  • Why do you go with the other guy

  • Its normal. the more you do you get use to of it.

  • Assuming you're in a relationship, it's called a "conscience"...

    It's possible you actually have feelings for your partner. Take an aspirin with a glass of strychnine and it'll pass... 🤦