How do you get the spark back in a long term relationship?

In the bedroom specifically. I feel like our sex life is just dead now. Everytime we have sex, it’s really short, awkward and uncomfortable. And I feel like I’m the only one who’s trying to suggest new ideas for us to try, and the only one who’s trying to reignite that intimacy spark.

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  • Take a trip. An adventure. Something that requires effort and shared experience. That builds the bond back.

  • Time to eat and finger his ass

  • There is no single answer to this question becase every person is different and has different interests / triggers / fantasies. For us it was adding toys and anal play / sex. But that may or may not work for you.

  • I know the feeling