How do you give a proper bj?

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I have no experience, please help!!

Dargil · Accepted Answer

Caution. Word Wall ahead.

I consider myself a Blow Job Evangelist. It is the single most important thing you can do for a younger guy. Most girls do not know how to give an effective blowjob. They have to resort to trial and error partly because guys can't verbalize what they want. Over time, I have received quite a few and, as important, watched AV clips that ended in visible evidence of ejaculation. What struck me is how much alike they all were. So I laid out an effective routine. With no porn drama, necessary, here's what always seems to work.

*What happens in the foreplay stage varies from guy to guy; teasing, play, etc. Many girls have certain teases that are good for starting arousal. The goal is to get us hard and drooling precum, but not too near to orgasm, so the "tank" has time to fill. While there's always some on hand, arousal induces emergency production of semen so his volume will be bigger and his orgasm will be stronger. I favor a nipples to knees erotic massage. Five to ten minutes is good.

*A blow job is not romantic, interactive sex, it is one-way sexual therapy. You make it all about him. It is a combination of hand and oral. The head wants bobbing, sucking and licking, slick, soft and smooth. The shaft wants vigorous hand stroking. Conversely, vigorous stroking overwhelms the head, and the shaft doesn't respond as well to a mouth as it does to a hand. So a good blowjob is suck and stroke. In the early stage, they are synchronized, with your hand just below your mouth, bobbing and stroking in unison. This will get him ready to cum. This should only take five minutes after foreplay, once you get the hang of it.

*Once you start, never stop or slow down. Build steady tension to the finish. It is OK to level off to "edge" him for a short while, to make him last a little longer, so long as you don't lose ground. When he starts to buck and breathe deep, he is ready to cum. Go aggressive. Increase the intensity and speed of sucking and bobbing to where you can still sustain that for a few minutes and break away hand stroking to go as fast as you can with a moderate grip.

*He wants to cum in your mouth while you suck and stroke. Be prepared for it and don't skip a beat. When he starts to ejaculate, stop bobbing and straight-suck only. Keep hand stroking, but at a slower pace, to coax out the last squirts. If you have a gag reflex at ejaculation, curl your tongue up to deflect the stream. You should like doing this.

*Stay "locked on" (sucking without motion) until he unplugs. It feels good to drain out and shrink away under vacuum. Also a little brief, occasional "suckling", like a baby on a pacifier, is a good tease while we drain. It will make him jump, but he will like it.

*Be careful not to scratch or bite. It can put the fire out, particularly true with braces.

*Deep throating and "face fucking" are useless porn antics. Your mouth and tongue will give a better sensation that your throat ever could.

*He may instinctively grab your head and try to drive deep when he cums. It's nothing personal. It's biology. You can avoid choking by gripping his penis firmly in front of your mouth so he can't drive it in too deeply.

*Swallowing is up to you as it gives no pleasure but may give him an ego boost. I actually like her to spit the load into her palm so we see how we did.

*There is nothing that will make a man feel more loved than a skilled blow job, where he can be indulged without feeling self conscious. Developing this skill can help cement your relationship and make it less likely he will cheat. A skilled blowjob is not slutty and don't act that way. A blowjob is "girl power". One more thing. This Meme is funny but absolutely true.

Glenn603 · Accepted Answer

I don`t think there really is a proper way of giving a bj, just do it a way that you want to do it. However you do it i can guarantee he will love it.
But when somebody is giving me one i absolutely love it when she makes loads of eye contact with me while doing it, but the most important thing for me is that she keeps doing it the same rhythm, I don`t mind if she speeds up when i`m very close to cumming but definitely not slow down or particularly stop for a second just before

KitKnickKat · Accepted Answer

I transition between stroking with my hand and sucking. Every guy is different, you kinda just roll with it until you figure out what he likes! I was told the first time that I’m a natural, and I had no experience so maybe the same will happen to you.

Jessie91331 · Accepted Answer

Beginners usually only go an inch or 2 down and use lots of hand. Basically jacking the guy off into your mouth.
Going deep, even being face fucked... guys pop quick, their load slides down your throat, everyone is happy. Just takes practice.

Wise4myage · Answer

Really can't say to much on here, but watching porn can give you lots o good ideas.

skittles2017 · Answer

Do your research on porn websites with tutorials and how to. There are loads of videos our there

moviedude714 · Answer

That's why there's a lot of sexologists out there

swettannie · Answer

use your tongue, don't forget his ball, look at him in thee eyes. after that, it's just practice.  BJ porn cn be good to have some idea of what to do

scooogy · Answer

Sucking it doesn't mean it serves you life saving oxygen :P

CubaPirate · Answer

Just suck it and see

beatcoock · Answer

I have no experience in receiving it though... But, eye contact might help

billluc69 · Answer

no teeth

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