How do you give a really good bj?

pls be super detailed i wanna suck the soul out of this man
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  • The most important thing is enthusiasm. You obviously already have that. But make sure HE can see how enthusiastic you are. Tell him just how badly you want his sperm. If you fantasize about choking on it then tell him "make me choke on it" and say it with a smile. If you just want to worship it with your mouth then moan in pleasure like he's fucking your vagina. Moaning and groaning in pleasure will relay to him how much you adore having his beautiful cock in your mouth. If you like the idea of it all the way down your throat then try to take as much as you can and don't be afraid to let him hear you gagging on it. But reassure him by smiling through it as much as you can. Provide him with lots of feedback letting him know you consider what you are doing to be the most wonderful experience of your life. The more you seem to love what you are doing the more erotic it will be for your guy and the more physically enjoyable it will be for him.

    Ok so the mechanics of it. No teeth, not teeth and no teeth are the three most important things to remember. The best way to ruin a blow job is to let him feel your teeth. cover your lower choppers with your tongue and the upper ones with your upper lip as much as possible. You can end up dry this way so hydrate a lot before hand. Also if you don't object to the taste, try using a flavorless (or if you prefer flavored) lube. Go to most major grocers or Walmart and you should find several choices. Read the labels to see if there are warnings about toxicity but I don't think any lube you can put on a penis is one that is harmful to have in your mouth but some don't taste that good. My favorite is Astroglide. A good lube will compensate for dry lips while you are trying to fuck his cock with your mouth.

    If your goal is to drink his sperm then you want to maintain a steady rhythm. Stopping and starting repeatedly or changing the speed constantly will delay an orgasm or prevent one altogether. If you get tired after half an hour of sucking then you are not going to achieve your goal. So don't get tired. Slow and steady is better than fast and erratic and no erratic is not erotic.

    If your goal is to delay his orgasm for an extended period of time (some find this a fun way to do this) then yes vary your speed and change up frequently and even start and stop a lot, this also can work if you just really like sucking on a hard cock and don't want him to cum any time soon or if sucking cock is just foreplay and you want his sperm to end up in your vagina.

    Don't forget the balls. Personally to me more than half the play is in the balls and it is very difficult for me to cum if they are being ignored. Every guy is different. Some don't want you to touch their balls at all. Others like me crave rough play with the balls. Most guys are somewhere in between. Just ask what he likes.

    One more thing, a lot of guys or even most guys will enjoy teaching you what they like. I would find it very erotic if a girl said to me that she really wanted to suck my cock badly but didn't know how and then she asked me to teach her. You can always try that approach.

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  • There are not many details to go over. It is work. If you are wanting it to be quick or complicated, you will be disappointed. You just squeeze it with your. Outh, keep your teeth off of it, and rub it by moving your head up and down the cock. The tighter you squeeze, the faster you rub, and the better you are at keeping your teeth off it the better the Blow job is. If you want it to be memorable then always keep the back your mouth closed so if he cums without telling you you don't inhale. And while he cums grind your tongue, lips, cheeks, and throat on the tip as hard and as fast as you can. Always try to do it until a few seconds after he tries to stop you.

    • Thats supposed to be "squeeze it with your mouth"

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  • Don’t just suck but lick (at the beginning licking all before putting it into your mouth or while sucking it), also tease the tip and while sucking use your hand to grab the part that doesn’t fit into your mouth, when giving the blowjob try moving the hand side to side (hope you understand what I’m saying) if you want you could use your other hand to play with the balls. After a while keep being constant and kinda fast but when he cums slow down and start stopping the movement until everything comes out. Also you could make eye contact if possible and when you start tease him a bit, they usually like a bit of teasing

    • And well I didn’t mention but obviously careful with the teeth, cover them with your lips

    • Well said

    • Listen to her she knows what she's talking about. Couldn't say it better myself.

  • Talk to your mom about that. She won't steer you wrong.

    • This is horrible advice LMAO

    • @BUNroaster I think it is against the rules here to give detailed instructions how to do sex acts.

    • Meh I mean I guess I don't see a lot of that. though it is really helpful info for the inexperienced.

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  • look up mz natural, super head and mr marcus, and teanna trum (homemade videos not her porn lol) and pay attention lol

  • Concentrate on the head and lick around on top, underneath, the tip then put in your mouth as you suck it, lick the shaft down to the balls then back up to the head now if he cums real fast you did a dam good job

  • Use your elbows.

  • Just blow him more often

  • No teeth and find his speed

  • Uh just read a book about it and leave us be

  • You practice

  • I'll give 3 lessons to you. 1) Don't bring your teeth near his penis, just like when guy is eating you out and he cuts your vagina clit with his teeth or his nail. It f*** hurts. 2) Make sure this is also about your pleasure too, so make sure you enjoying it. And moan while you put your warm mouth swallowing deep down your throat n look deep into his eyes like mmmm I love this banana kinda you dying to eat it. 3) it's all about the finish before he comes. Interrupt him. Don't let him finish fast. Done

  • Just don't hurt him, everything else is in his brain and out of your control.

    Just like women, most guys have no idea of what they want in sex (maybe even less) so just listening to them it's hit and miss.

    Best thing for sex is looking like you are enjoying it, and the best way to get that is to enjoy it.

  • go watch porn. we're not going to dirty talk you

  • keep sucking once you start
    use your tongue too
    lick his balls

  • Lube up good… tickle the bottom of the head & shaft with your tongue and grip on with a hand & up down & spin your hand around it a little bit. Be sensual and watch the body talk!


    Probably good to avoid teeth scraping. lol

    • Don't forget to play with his balls.

    • Do more then shafe oil change. Lol you gotta let the emotions connect to it.

    • …oh yeah. Fondle the balls. lol

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  • Don't ask this here, ask him. Because like women, we are all different and like different things. You need to find out what HE loves to make it "really good". What works for one, may not for another.

  • Usually keep sucking on the head while he is cumming and swallowing while still sucking and stroking the shaft during

  • How do you give a really good bj?

    Try that

    • No, don't try that. That's invasive and disgusting.

    • I love that

  • Practice on a lollipop or banana. Deep throat and look at him while you do it. Swallow if he cums in your mouth.