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Any tips on how to handle sexual rejection? If you've ever been in this situation just how do you deal with it?
How do you handle being sexually rejected from your partner?
Apple1996 Master
Any tips on how to handle sexual rejection? If you've ever been in this situation just how do you deal with it?
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For my personal situation, attraction isn't a issue and we have discussed this multiple times. Also no cheating going on. Thank you guys for trying to help but a lot of y'all are assuming the worst about my situation.
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24 85Maybe he's just not in a mood or his sex drive is just getting low. Anyone should be prepared for situations like that. If you love someone, don't forget to love yourself too and tell him how you feel.
His drive is low. That is nothing new. It's just starting to hurt worse and worse everytime
And if that's the case you can't blame him. There will be times when your'e not in a mood for it too.
I'm always in the mood lol
Motivate him and let him recharge. He probably is just getting lazier because i don't know. I guess you're easy and he used up a lot of his energy on you. Men may have higher sex drive but it gets low really fast. By the way when was the last time you had sex?
Perhaps letting him exercise and do more "romantic" stuff with him. (Sorry i can't understand romance lol)
Now you know that should never happen you're absolutely beautiful and I know you know what turns him on use it to your advantage!😉
I have not been in this situation but I can say that there is but one way to rightfully handle it. That is to talk about it with them. If you don't tell them how you feel how will they know? They might not know they are hurting you. I am sure that their intentions are not to hurt you and they just don't know that they are.
Talk to them and maybe they will talk to you too so that you may understand their feelings as well. There may be a reason behind their actions that they aren't saying anything about and you won't know about unless someone starts talking...
Sometimes it can be painful especially when your partner hurts your feelings
i don't either
My guess is there's other factors here. Disagreements, stresses, miscommunication... you need to figure those things out first
Weird. I can’t imagine a guy rejecting sex unless he’s getting it somewhere else. Sex is a relationship’s barometer. So if he doesn’t ever want it I’d start packing.
What are his symptoms? There maybe a underlying issue!
I would say the same thing and talking it out could help.
I'm thinking he might be dealing with depression or PTSD. 🤔 If you want more info contact me.
I dont think it's either of those. The only issue he has is with alcohol
Hmmm. How much and how often is he drinking?
He was drinking at least 3 tall boys a day. he's recently stopped. Like 5 days sober for him and now he's stuck at work for 8 days so next time I'll see him itll be about 2 weeks sober
At 6 bears per day is a lot, and could cause ED
www.livestrong.com/.../
Beers 🍻
Yeah and those are small compared to when he drinks hard alcohol. It ends up being whole bottles of jack or vodka. I've talked to him about it but it's hard for him to stay sober
Well, alcohol is DEFINITELY hurting his sex life! I promise!
And if he doesn't reform now he'll end up with a fatty liver, which will lead cirrhosis, which will lead to liver cancer and death.
Help him quit! Get him to go to AA.
How long have you been married?
How old are you both?
Are there health concerns?
Do you want to try and save your marriage?
Are you thinking of having an affair?
Too many questions, sorry!
Been married almost 5 years 23 and 24 Nah no real health concerns besides stress and I have depression. My marriage is sexless but it just hard to convince him to have sex with me. Nah not gonna cheat
Marriage isn't* sexless lol sorry about that
Apple1996 - glad you corrected that. Sounded pretty dreary!
@Red_Arrow haha yeah I wish we could edit on here
Try going over to him with your panties in your hand with a naughty smile. Then there’s my favorite, have him lay on his back with his erection on his stomach. Straddle him back by his balls. Spread your pussy lips on either side of his cock. Slide up to the head, then back to his balls... repeat. With your clit rubbing on his cock let him play with your tits and nipples. It shouldn’t take long for you to have an orgasm. If that doesn’t get his blood pressure up, you better check for a pulse. By the way, I call that Riding the Pony
I would have to talk him into doing that or start up when he's sleeping. That's the stuff I can't even get him to agree too
I have a more active sex drive than my wife which ultimately leads to some rejection. Not gonna lie, it doesn't feel good, but I've learned not to take it personally.
Find another partner.
I'm used to the thought of probably never experiencing anything sexual again.
Something bad is going on here either in your relationship or with your husband personally. I think you better find out what it is before the situation gets worse.
All depends
I don't know what you mean really
i get very depressed and feel very hurt and unwanted
I just lay in bed hurting till i fall asleep
Yeah that is what I usually do
Find another guy u r desired for him
Have a wank
Wow that hard to deal with. What turns him on. Do that and try to gsin his trust
If she gave a valid reason, potentially well. I really don't know, sweet <3