To answer your question, yes we can still get them at this age especially if there is someone hot nearby and we are having dirty thoughts. Also, depending on his dick type, he could tent, bulge or poke out. However, we also have a bit more control over our erections at this point. We’re not senior citizens... lol. Some of us look and act young. Side note, we do like it when you look at our crotch, at least I do. 😂
Firstly, most men at 45 are still completely capable of an erection, so don't rule it out because of that!
But for your main question, you can't really unless you can compare to other times. If it's bigger than usual, it's probably an erection. If not, it's probably just his flaccid self.
The way I always tell is by the shape. If it doesn't look straight or if it's not, like, straining against the pants it's probably just a bulge.
If it looks, um, fuller it would be an erection. Lol
At least that's what I've always thought. Haha
Do you guys get turned on by seeing huge erected penis. Do you feel like going on your knees to suck it.
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Probably not a boner. Unless he had a reason to have one? But a good sign he might be packing... lol Oh and 45 year old guys can still get it up lol
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Don’t worry men still get boners way past 45 and yes I’m sure he found you very attractive. If there was anything like a “tent” happening and not just a bulge in the fabric then it was a boner. A flacid Penis does not create a tent. You should consider it a complement.
You think 45 year old guys don't get boners, or you think that 45 year old guys don't get a boner for a girl who is 25-29?
just dont get spontaneous boners like teenagers?
Getting bonafied looking at a pretty young girl is not spontaneous.
And, yes, older guys still get get hard when they look at a pretty girl and imagine what she would be like as a sexual partner.
only experience can allow you to know that.
without us seeing it, we can't tell you. but usually if its hard, its going to be super obvious, unless its a little dick...
It may be neither. Excess material often folds out when sitting down. Only way to find out is getting a hand on it.
I guess you could go over and stand closer, lean forward so he can see down your top and you can see if the bulge changes?
I think the best way to know is to Google yourself some pictures of "bulges" and "boner bulges" to see the difference
You will know the different because my bulge is just my bulge my bonner I'm not sitting down and it's either going down my leg or sticking up past the waist band of my pants with my shirt hanging down over it and I'm walking fast lol
A little tent while sitting down is hopefully just his pants, or possibly a bulge. If he had a boner, I would like to think it would have been large enough that you would be certain.
This is how I analyse em:
If it was pointing like a tent, its a boner. If its a bulge with some length then prolly its just a bulge or he might me semi erect.
Let me know if I am wrong
Why u know so many things about it? 😂
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A man of 45 could easily have a boner, I mean he is not necessarily old. And if he has a tent in his pants then it's very much a boner, no flaccid penis could make a bulge or tent in his pants. I am sure he found you very attractive hence the boner.
if it was me it would have been a ''boner'' as i always have one but this guy, it could have just been his pants as sometimes the zipper can make them appear to stick up when a guy is sitting down
Girls wanting too know usually reached into my drawers or pulled them down too investigate.
Most guys have their penis downward. If he was soft or hard it would just be a round bulge. If it had room to point up it would be hard if it reached the waistband and push out. At 45 I would get hard if talking a long time with someone I really liked. I always have my penis upwards getting a boner hanging kinda hurts
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i check it out again, this time it was just round and it was just a bulge. But last time it was pressing against his pants and it was upwards, guess that was at least a boner lol
There are growers and showers. Growers greatly increase in size as they get hard. Showers stay about the same size but get hard. I think most guys are growers like me. The round bulge could be either simi hard downward but the other must have been hard. Like mine the average is 5.5" long and looks very short in the sitting position. I hope it all works out and you get the opportunity to take it for a joy ride! lol
Urghh if it wasn't for professionalism, would've taken it to stage 2 by now
I wanna say foacid but the little tent makes me question it
Difficult to say definitively. He could just be well endowed which would cause a tent. Could be he was rock hard. Its 50/50
I'm 45 and can have boners all day long.
Well because i always wear jeans when my penis is soft its still like 4 inches long and theirs still a small bulge thats probably the u thing your talking about. But when i have an actual boner theirs a huge bulge pointing straight between the zipper of my pants. then i have to sit down or remove my pants till the boner has passed.
It’s difficult to say for sure
Boner
Bulge
What? Because of his age?
I'm 57 and still get rock hard when aroused or seeing an attractive woman.
Was probably a in between bulge... did you like what you saw?
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