Possible TMI ahead. A girl I was with had concerns.
*My cleanliness. The slightest funk can turn me away, so I made sure I was the most appetizing for her. Don't laugh. After I washed up (I'm cut, so it's easy). I moisturized with pink Oil of Olay.
*She had a sensitive gag/choke reflex. So I looked up on the internet what could be done about it and came up with this routine.
First, a little anatomy. Mods: This pic is not intended to be porn.
The part of the penis that needs the attention of your mouth is the head, AKA, the glans. In particular, once a penis is firmly erect, it is the "corona" (the ridge) and the "sulcus" (valley behind it) that are most sensitive. So all you need do is pass the corona and sulcus through "kissing lips" to give it the pleasure it needs.
This should work.
Tell him you learned about this on the internet. Ask him to stay with the routine. Then as you become more comfortable, you can relax on it.
His orgasm may induce him to hold and pull on your head and want to drive deep into your mouth/throat. This is instinct working and nothing personal. Just keep your hand on the shaft and if he drives, grip his penis to prevent him from going deep.
Ask him to let you know he is going to cum several seconds before hand so you can lift your tongue tip toward the roof of your mouth. This will block the shot when it comes, preventing gagging. Remember to keep it there for several seconds, because he may have several squirts.
So your routine can be bobbing at just the head and stroking the shaft. When he gets close to orgasm (bucking, deep breathing), bob as fast as you can sustain for 5 minutes and begin stroking the shaft fast with a moderate grip.
You do not need the penis to touch your tongue to do it. Naturally you want to open your mouth enough to keep your teeth away.
Have him lie on his back, and you can lay between his legs and blow him that way. Tell him that he cannot touch your head or you'll stop. In this position, you have the majority of the control anyway, and it's easier to set the pace and experiment and even to push yourself if you want to, without feeling "trapped" by him. Explain to him that you WANT to improve, but that you need to be given some time to work on it, and that he needs to cooperate if that's ever going to happen. Unless he's a complete idiot, he'll leave you alone and let you work. :)
You need to make it clear to him about how You don’t like him pushing your head
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Tell him to fucking stop it and you don't like that. Tell him either sit back and enjoy it or I'm going to bite that shit... I bet he will stop lol
You need a better boyfriend
Bite him once. That'll stop him from being a dick
Well I don't push her head toward it, that's uncalled for and he shouldn't be doing it-- what it means though is that he's frustrated with you, clearly, that you aren't doing it for him more often, or possibly ever. He wouldn't be pushing you if you were doing it. Now, you don't have to do anything you don't want to, obviously. But he, by the same token, doesn't need to be okay with you not doing it, either. If you two aren't sexually compatible, and it sounds like you may not be, you maybe should consider your options moving forward about whether the two of you should be together.
Well considering we only just recently became intimate two weeks ago, it was no reason for me to. We had sex for the first time like I said a couple of weeks ago. I came back over his house a week later and that’s when he asked for me to do it. Which is the only reason why I was hesitant because it was my first time doing it. Not because I dislike doing it in general. I’m just inexperienced with it. Which he knows because I told him but I just know it’s a better way for him to get me to like it more rather than just pushing my head toward it. Now if I’m always against it like you said I would sort of understand him forcing my head down there but that was literally my first time participating in it and being asked to participate in doing it.
I gotcha. I didn't know that. Well he should be talking to you about it then and if he won't, even though it may be nervewracking, you may need to bring it up to him and talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. He may get defensive, and if he does just tell him you don't mean to but it made you uncomfortable. Hopefully he'll apologize and you two can talk about what you each want from sex.
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