How do you relieve pain after anal?

So I just lost my anal virginity this afternoon. Yes we used protection. It was amazing first of all. He is well endowed so I'm having some pain and discomfort. I just have this weird hollow feeling. Is there anything I can do to reduce that feeling this time and in the future?
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  • Most girls experience their vagina being sore when they first start having sex, or when they first start having it again after not having it for a month or more. But after a few sessions, the skin gets a bit tougher and the soreness goes away. Well, the same thing is happening here. You're sore because you've never done it before, and, yeah, unfortunately it's uncomfortable, but if you try again after 3-5 days, and again after 3-5 days, you'll almost certainly find that the pain is less and less each time, and may be completely gone after the 3rd or 4th time.

  • Well this is going to be a hard question for me to answer because I've never had it nor will I ever have it I have given it and two different times two different girls I felt water drops under my arm and I stopped and I said why didn't you tell me it hurt and both of them use the exact same words don't stop they're happy tears way to stop the pain is tell the person is doing it to you to learn how to do it same with fucking learn how to do it you shouldn't ever have any pain

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  • Actually you should never feel pain to begin with if you do you are doing wrong.
    It is a misconception that people often believe that anal hurts. It doesn't and if it does it's a sign you need to stop and readjust.

    • It actually didn't hurt while we were doing it. It was just sore after. It's getting much better now.

    • That's good. I guess you could always take an over the counter pain medication. Oh and avoid using anal ease you dont want to be numb because you want to be aware of any pain during the act. Always stop if pain you dont want to hurt yourself. Had someone be rough with me and I bled for weeks even though I stopped the act went to the doc was told i would need a stitch

    • Oh no! That sounds horrible. So sorry that happened to you!

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  • It goes away in a day or two.

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  • Ice around the area to try numb the pain. Take painkillers like aspirin or ibuprofen and after 20 mins the pain will ease.
    Fair play to you for being open! Glad it was a good experience

  • hot baths help a lot i've been sore from anal a time or two

  • Yeah, stop trolling ya fake pinkie.

    How do you relieve pain after anal?
    • I'm not trolling. It was a legitimate question, but I should have limited the answers to females. I think the males took this as an invite to DM me. No thanks 🙂

    • Maybe you just need some Preparation H? Don't you hate a guy being a pain in your ass?

    • Lol 😅

  • Get a tube of Preparation H and keep it handy.
    After anal play, especially with a larger endowment, rub it around your anus and stick a greased finger in there to get some down the chute. Trust me, it will ease the pain.
    The next day you will feel fine, the ass heels pretty quickly.

    • You mean if some girl pegs you that you use Preparation H? It solves 2 problems. An aching ass and hemorrhoids. It's a win-win

    • Yeah it takes care of the hemorrhoid problem if you have one, but it helps reduce the inflammation and pain that you will get from anal sex. It is made for the booty.

  • Probably because the guy was big. I don't do anal unless the guy is no more than 6"

    • What is your limit

    • @dinojames22 6.5 inches

    • I see

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