How do you self masturbate?

What turns you on? Toys if so what kind! I can't get myself off ! Help ! Self orgasm advice please
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  • i can only think of a few reasons why.
    1. i think that u you're too stressed out and tensed when having sex or masturbating.
    try not to focus too much on your end goal of orgasm but simply be in the moment and enjoy each sensation as it comes. focusing and worrying too much about whether or not you'll orgasm takes your focus away from what is happening and takes you out of the right headspace to truly experience sex and masturbation.
    2. you're not giving yourself enough time to explore your own body. pick a day and place where you can explore your body undisturbed. set a romantic atmosphere, put on some sexy clothing, read some erotica or turn on some porn. try masturbating in different positions - if you usually sit down, try laying down. if you're used to masturbating while laying down, try standing up etc. instead of doing the same things over and over again, try other forms of stimulation. girls are capable of nipple orgasms, clitoral orgasms, vaginal orgasms and cervical orgasms. don't rush into it. take your time to caress your body, focus on your breathing; breathe in deeply and exhale through your mouth. in your free time, train your PC muscles by doing kegals - apparently they do wonders. I've been training my PC muscles for awhile now and i've experienced much better orgasms.
    3. you're not doing enough. have you tried different ways of self-pleasuring? girls have countless ways to masturbate and you're not confined to just your fingers. you can try using the showerhead to stimulate your clit, humping/grinding your bolsters, or even venturing into the world of sex toys. let me tell you one thing: sex toys are amazing! like really... sex toys have totally changed my sex life and masturbation routine and it brings pleasure to a whole new level. sex toys are made solely for pleasure and they have all sorts of technology embedded in them to unleash your greatest sex potential.
    my sex toys bring me to orgasm very quickly and they give me some of the greatest orgasms - even comparable to sex. there are so many sex toy offerings on the market and some even claim to guarantee orgasms. hearing from girls that also have trouble orgasming, they used clit suction toys such as the satisfyer pro and they finally experienced their first orgasm!
    4. if you're having trouble cumming during sex, most likely it's because the guy isn't experienced enough and doesn't last long enough in bed. trust me, with the right guy with the right moves, he's going to rock your world. try incoporating sex toys in bed, for example, using a vibrator on your clit while he penetrates you or have him eat you out while you rub your clit. just another suggestion, try exploring your kinks - try out some roleplaying in bed, put on costumes, set the mood with dirty talk and most importantly, have fun! don't forget to control your breathing - experts say they help you orgasm better! feel free to reach out if you have more questions.

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  • With my hand with my head my brain my heart my emotions my energy my voice my dreams somewhere you have a blockage and you're blocking yourself have you ever masturbated with somebody else have you ever thought of that if you experience it whether it be through role play real life sexting or phone sex you have to allow yourself to experience to understand it's all done with energy if you and I were to start talking I could project something to you that you might feel are they your energy could feel and if you allow yourself to feel it you will feel one of the most beautiful feelings in the world and if I kept it going that's a through phone sex you would feel the energy deeper then physical touch and you would have one of the most beautiful orgasms ever until you experience it. And how you got there you will always have a blockage it doesn't have to be phone sex you can be anything

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  • I only got the external thing as a guy. But maybe you get yourself all nice and comfy. Get the temperature just right. Put on your fav music. And start a fire on your clit if you need to.

  • For me it can be a lot of things, an old memory, seeing someone, chatting to them, even sexting.

    I prefer reading erotica and audio erotica when masturbating, it allows my brain to paint its own pictures.

    Being comfortable helps and right temperature room.

    while masturbating, I play with my nipples and if in the mood my ass.

    then it’s a case of getting on with it, deciding if going to edge or just go for it.

    girls have a fair few options,

    Will let the girls decide what toys, clit suckers seem popular.

  • Find a kink that gets you going, and see if you can partake in it the best way available.

    Whether alone or with the aid of porn or toys, it's really up to what you find exciting and what works for you.

    Trial and error.

  • By myself!

  • It's easy. I get bored, I rub my nob.

  • I watch porn and I do it the same way all Not mutilated guys do it

  • porn and kink

  • I normally just use my hands and watch some porn or something i just use my own imagination.

  • I smell a male troll.

  • Are you even a real girl? Your age is 36-45 and you dont know about masturbation and orgasms? Sus

  • you should try your hair brush handles

    • Seriously?

    • How long have you been a female? Every girl I know inserted the handles of their hairbrushes into their vaginal and rectal openings. If you look at the hand grips of female hair brushes you will see a pattern than more than half of them were produced for this purpose

    • I believe I have been a female since birth to my knowledge at least ! Thanks for input

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