Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My mom is by no means “a religious nutcase” but she and her parents always saw porn, masturbation, and oral as bad. In HS, she always told me “dont do anything you have no business doing.” OR “We dont go down there *points* on anyone. Mouths dont belong there.” But yea aside from that, i pretty much never got the sex talk. She still thinks I’m a virgin and i used to blamed her boyfriend for the porn I accidentally bought on tv. So i had to hide my sexcapades and past porn addiction from her. Anyways, she read my sisters journal today and saw it said “You will not watch porn again.” I laughed on the inside. My mom freaked out and was like “She cannot be watching porn! I will go to jail if the police monitor what she's watching.” Lmao. I didn't know what to say. I just laughed. But my mom is legit clearing all the history rn and thinking of taking my sisters devices away. 🤣
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How do you tell your mom that porn isn't “that bad”?
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Clearly y'all dont read. I know the downsides of porn... hello ex porn addict here. But i’m saying this lady think she goin to jail for porn being in the search history 😂
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She be lettin my sis watch HBO, Starz, FX, TNT and Showtime shows with us like The Chi, Power, Lovecraft Country, Snowfall, Animal Kingdom, Watchmen, etc... like wtf she expect 😂 Dick, Tits and ass everywhere on those channels. My softporn addiction started with HBO and then i ventured out to hardcore so yea mom... you did this to yaself
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 64Tell her it’s a form of sex education that’s isn’t taught in school or by parents lol
Hahaha
Honestly just like explain it with big words and scientific studies. If that doesn't work, you're going to have to show her by example and get her having sex more often with someone who knows what to do.
It is your sister's problem - let her deal with it
she's a mute most of the time. But December she’s been speaking her mind like crazy and almost given my mom a heart attack. But my mom hasn't confronted my sis about it yet
It is sinful for sure. And, it is actually detrimental to ourselves. It gives us that quick dopamine hit, but it is very lonely when we're all done. And, it affects our relationships. And, no, I'm not perfect, myself...
Yea i know that. But its not as bad as my mom makes it
It depends. It can become a significant enough problem to end a marriage.
Dude we know
Ummm, ok... I'm sort of confused at what you're getting at, then.
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Oh! Now I understand.
Why do you care about your mums views?
Because she brought it up to me
Random sex with whomever or porn here or there? It is healthy to have some insight knowing what you're interested in.
Lol its not about me tho
Not sure but she better not see my search history
Mine either 😂 well i watch in private/incognito haha
What is ur sis underage, and I'm pretty sure u can only go to jail for watching porn if it child porn otherwise I think its good to know of new things to try with ur partner or things that u find interesting
U can't they will always think its bad
Well she came and asked me
what kind of porn was it how much did she see
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Just buy her a vibrator. My mom bought me sex toys for my 15th birthday, it was weird but I appreciate it
How old are u now if u dnt mind me asking
No she's not into sex toys (neither am i) or masturbation. The point of he question is that she thinks she's goin to jail for my sis looking up porn on the internet lol
I find a good orgadm helps with hysteria
you know what you tell her "then if sex was bad why did you have me" or "then if sex was bad you wouldn't of had me"
or tell her maybe she should watch some of that porn and start flicking her bean to it, it might help loosen her up
Thats the thing, she’d have sex in a heartbeat but dont want us watchin porn
oh so she's a hypocrite. well call her out on it and tell her i'm glad your parents raised such a hypocrite. maybe you can teach us how to be hypocrites too.
Everyones a hypocrite in some way. But im not gonna hurt my mom anymore than i have to. Bow had she come at me the way she's about to come at my sis, i would have. But she's triggered rn because my sister also wrote in the journal that my mom is a hoe. Now thats hurtful. My mom dated the same dude for 8 years. She ain't no hoe lmao
That's real simple.. you don't!
Understand your mother gave birth to you (unless you're adopted). Even when you're a 100 years old. If she's still alive you'll still be her little baby. And your child doesn't straighten you out on anything. Get it? Sorry
Yea but she think she goin to jail lol
You don't. You use incognito and pretend it never happened when you're done.
I always did that. This is about my sis
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Haha. I am going to write the same lol. 🤣
I know but still lmao