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How do you tell your partner you'd rather have unprotected sex all the time?

Me and my boyfriend are both clean because we were not sexually active people before getting together. I've been tested and dont have anything and neither does he. With that being said, I feel like condoms get in the way and it just feels so much better without one. How do I convince him to go without a rubber from now on?

I know he's scared of getting me preggers which is a very valid reason to keep using them but his pull out game is pretty good to me so I don't see the problem.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Having an open and honest conversation with your partner about your preferences and concerns around unprotected sex is important for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship. However, it's important to prioritize your partner's feelings and to approach the conversation in a respectful and considerate way.

    Here are some tips that may be helpful:

    1. Choose the right time and place: Try to have the conversation during a time when you both feel relaxed and comfortable, and when you won't be interrupted. It's also important to approach the conversation in a private setting where you can talk openly and honestly.

    2. Be honest and direct: Let your partner know how you feel and why you would prefer to have unprotected sex. It's important to be clear and direct about your preferences, but also to acknowledge your partner's concerns and feelings.

    3. Listen to your partner's perspective: It's important to listen to your partner's concerns and feelings about unprotected sex, and to be open to their perspective. Try to approach the conversation with a spirit of empathy and understanding.

    4. Explore other options: If your partner is concerned about pregnancy, consider exploring other options for birth control, such as hormonal contraceptives or an IUD. It's important to discuss these options with your doctor and to make an informed decision.

    5. Respect your partner's boundaries: It's important to respect your partner's boundaries and to prioritize their feelings and concerns. If your partner is not comfortable with unprotected sex, it's important to honor their wishes and to find a solution that works for both of you.

    Remember, communication is key in any relationship, and it's important to approach conversations about sex and intimacy with honesty, respect, and consideration for your partner's feelings and boundaries.

  • Remember , Young people are finely tuned baby factories with a built in drive to increase production. His level of commitment may not be as concrete as yours. Once a baby is in the picture, Sex will be when you can because babies are their own form of birth conrtrol. Most males put up with monthly sex hoping for a return to normalcy after the kids are grown. Unfortunately, menopause dries the garden of happiness. and your desire may fade. It is an issue as far as he is concerned. I think it is one of the reasons that ministers warn prospective spouses that God does not want them to get married (does not want them to take an oath or vow that they have no control over ie erectile dysfunction or menopause) and thereby take till death do you part vows that they are unlikely to be able to fulfill. It is a serious commitment.

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  • Show him this video.

    Bad Dragon Cumplay pt.2 (EDITED VERSION)

    Tell him to buy you this

    How do you tell your partner you'd rather have unprotected sex all the time?

    If he still can't connect the dots, It's time to throw him back and catch yourself a new fish.

  • just say you prefer it that way, as long as you take a contraceptive of some kind,

    • I guess I could do that.

    • you have to be honest with sex, its not much if you don't get enjoyment from it,

    • That's so true. Thanks for your advice!

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  • I wouldn't have sex with a girl unless she was on some sort of contraception unless I wanted her to get pregnant.

    Every girlfriend I ever had was on the pill. I've probably cummed inside women over 5000 times in my life with never a mishap.

    Condoms make sex way less enjoyable.
    If he has never had sex without a condom, he doesn't know what he has been missing.

    So my advice would be to get on the pill or some other form of contraception and then tell him that it's safe to cum inside you.

  • The pull out method does not work. The precum on a penis can have some sperm in it. If you do not want to use a condom consider another form of birth control. Before I got married I always used condoms and had great orgasms and a great sex life.

  • You really need to think of going on some sort of contraceptive if you like to go bareback even if his pull out game seems good it just takes once to forget or time things wrong and there can be sperm in his precum.
    I've been in that situation and made mistakes with my ex I was very nervous that she wanted me to use the withdrawal method which my worries proved founded.

    Also I feel as though my climax doesn't reach its full potential by pulling out before I cum and ending all the stimulation associated with shooting my load inside.

  • Honey, don't you think it's time we got married?

  • You do it after giving her a 2 carat diamond engagement ring and setting a wedding date.

  • Get on birth control.

  • Just get him really horny and then when he goes to fuck you say you can only go in me without a condom. He will be so honry that he will probably say sure.

    • Ok I can do that.

    • works every time lol

  • Most guys hate condoms too. Have a conversation with him and I expect he'll be on board.

    • Ok I definitely will.

  • His pull out game maybe good but all it takes is one time where he's not quick enough and then you end up preggers. Plus the sensation from without him having a condom during sex may make him come quicker and might be too late to pull out

    I think the best way is to get that implant from the doctors that stops you from getting pregnant.

  • Did you show him your paperwork to show you are STD Free? I had a vesectomy many years ago and am STD tested monthly. All of my friends with benefits know that. I agree that fucking without a rubber is so much more exciting. She can feel the veins on my cock and I can feel her wetness. When we cum, so much more exciting without a rubber.

    • No he trusts me. I've only been with one other person and that was years ago.

  • It's all about communication. Perhaps look into some form of birth control (i. e., IUD, shots, pills, etc.)

  • the issue with pulling out prior to popping is it sometimes can cause blue balls TBH

    • Wow didn't know that.

    • hence the reason of having no protection and not pulling out would only apply to me if it were to giving anal which I hope isn't TMI but just my honest opinion 😊😇

    • I may try that next time. I never thought I would do anal until now with my current boyfriend but it may just feel just as good.

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  • take a plane pills..
    and go on..
    cuz u may get pregnant from last time he ejaculated and didn’t wipe his couck... men can't control their cum 100% ..

  • I would simply tell it. It's nothing special or weird or emberassing it's a totally normal thing

  • U just have to get him all hot and let him fuck u and make sure you tell him no condom this time.

    • Ok I can do that.

    • That’s usually all it takes lol

  • Thats the o ly way I'll have se

  • Go on birth control and tell him that is what you want and like

  • GO TO HELL

  • If he’s worried about pregnancy, you might not be able to convince him. Otherwise, you might have to catch him in the heat of the moment. Like one time, my boyfriend was starting to put on the condom. I just took it out of his hand and tossed it aside, then pulled him down on top of me. Nature kind of took over if you know what I mean.

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