Guys, how does it make you feel when people expect you to have a high sex drive just because you're a guy?

I've been with my boyfriend off and on for about half a year. I'm usually in the mood more often than he is. He's expressed to me that he just doesn't have as high of a sex drive as I do. I was wondering. Do guys feel pressured just as much as girls do? I've seen stories upon stories of women feeling depressed or like they're not good enough because they just don't want sex as often as their partners. What about when it's flipped? How do you guys feel if your partner has a higher sex drive? Do you feel the need to put other guys down because their drive isn't as high as your own? Why is that something that you do? Does it make your partner selfish to expect you to want to have sex more and do you think you would just tell them to find someone else to be with if it's that big of an issue for them? Let us know how it really makes you feel.
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  • I do have a high sex drive just no outlet currently so idkk.

  • Yeah that has happened to me a few times in our long relationship but not so much as to threaten it

  • No never a need to put another guy down for not having a high enough sex drive. I do like that she has a high sex drive and find it fun to be with her.

    I would hope she doesn't want to find someone else and would do a lot to try to keep her if sex was the factor she was going to leave.

  • Mine is reverse case.. and it's bad feeling when she says.. do it with your hand...

  • Well I have a sex addiction and watch porn every day. Just wish to find a woman with the same problem

  • It annoys me.

  • Fortunately I do have a very high sex drive.

  • Yeah it’s only a problem when I’m too tired and usually doing all the work unless they want to give me a bj first then I start to get more lively