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How does one become good in bed without having a bunch of sexual partners?
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38 78Easy answwr you can't.
From personal experience I can attest that with every new partner you learn a new set of skills, sure practice with the same partner is good and makes sex more natural but you can only take it so far with one person.
While I prefer having fuck buddies more than one night stands there are cases where a certain setting leads to sex but netheir one is capable of following through with commitment which is fine as well still a learning experience
Books! And porn! You can be an expert by just studying the art of sex.
You don't need first-hand experience to be amazing in the bedroom in my opinion. About 99.9 percent of what I know I have learned in a erotic novel or a porn video.
I'll get all the hands on experience after I am married this upcoming winter.
Congrats!!! That’s awesome!
Thank you! I hope your weekend is off to a great start.
Communication. That’s honestly all it takes.
And a little self discovery.
The way I see it, if you like something to be performed a certain way, communicate that with your partner and vide versa. No one is a mind reader to know where once will get the most pleasure.
ALSO, explore your own body. I’ll all for using these hands. How will you say what you like if you don’t even know where to find the pleasure yourself.
Good points I agree!
Masturbatiiiooonnn
How does that do anything?
@Jack9949 You learn more about your body and what makes you cum.
I suppose yes
Yeah it’s really important
Learn about the female body. Ask your partner what she likes. ( No this doesn't mean during sex you say "do you like that" because she will say yes even if it's not that great). Communication, trial and error, take your time.
By reading The Bible
But how did God impregnate Mary? I don't know that spell...
There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses. So you longed for the lewdness of your youth, when in Egypt your bosom was caressed and your young breasts fondled. Ezekiel 23:20
Id say either watching instructional videos
Or possibly practicing with props 🤔
Having bunch of partners makes you good in bed? How about having sex with one pertner bunch of times and learning what he/she likes by experience and discussing each other's kinks and intrests.
Well said. The girl who I lost my virginity to eons ago... we ended up dating for 5+ years and it was such an awesome way to get into all sorts of fun interests and kinky stuff :)
Does that mean you believe in one sex partner for life or the much more common serial monogamy?
I am just saying having bunch of sexual partners won't make you good in bed ( personal opinion)
Not saying you can’t get better but, for me you seem to either have it or you don’t.
my ex of 3 years was awful, I trained him how to do EVERYTHING. He was still awful but granted I made him better. I had previously had no sexual experience and the first time we ever did it he looked at me and told me I couldn’t be a virgin.
since leaving him I’m now finding out just how good some guys can be..
Sounds like he was a bit of a jerk. I'd say being good is really about training someone. Sure skills you learn may or may not work with the next person. Been my experience that one girl would tell me I was awesome and hit me up for friends with benefits constantly. While another would say I wasn't doing anything for her, even though I did the exact same thing with both of them. Now maybe she had some really super awesome sex from before that almost no one could match, who knows. That is when I figured it out, that the best sex is when 'both' parties are willing to train the other. I also seem to think that men are less receptive to being trained, seems like it bugs their ego or something.
By finding and learning with a trusted partner. Learning how to relax, touch, movement and timing, positioning yourself, kiss, etc.
You learn via vulnerability with shared intimacy. Helps if you get familiar with your own body and your triggers to get you aroused and stimulated as well. If you have no partner, read articles about sex, listen to podcasts or watch videos to learn anatomy and common pleasures spots.
Have just one.
Education
All that’s necessary is to pay attention to one’s partner.
maybe it's a gift? to be so emotionally detached from someone that you can go forever?
i know that sounds harsh, but i've known people like this. it has become a culture which i don't participate in. i respect myself too much
The girl in the pic is doing it wrong. The peen is in the front. I know this and I haven't even had that many sexual partners.
I think it would be possible with just one partner, if she's experienced and at least a little adventurous and you have a lot of sex with her. A lot of what makes someone skilled at sex is passion, enthusiasm, an emotional bond with your partner and a willingness to do multiple things when you have sex.
One simple thing... communication.
This guy isn't a virgin.
@TrainingDay So, your point is?
Being tired, or having a six pack of beer, a stack of Hustler Humor magazines, maybe a large sized container of petroleum jelly, and your phone on "vibrate" setting, and no calluses on your dominant hand, and you're good to go.
I haven't' seen a Hustler in ages... those were our porn back in the day. The kids have no idea how good they have it. lol
They also don't know the sacrifices the editor made too protect their freedom if speech, with his censorship sucks big Richard campaign.
100 percent.
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By fucking one partner multiple times.
Do you have sex with that one person until you are able to satisfy her, Why do you need multiple peoples opinion when you can explore what are you like together it you and your wife (in my case). Wants in your sex life not you your wife Ashley Stephanie Tiffany Etc it’s about what you and your wife like so who cares what other people like unless you’re planning on cheating which is a bad idea