How does one become good in bed without having a bunch of sexual partners?

How does one become good in bed without having a bunch of sexual partners?
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  • A lot of experiments and communications

  • Basically getting down and wild with your partner, changing different positions and Basically experimenting with one another not only that but doing it a lot helps also.

  • Masturbation

  • Read books and online.

  • Good at sex is a interesting concept, because its been my experience that sex in general is not something you can become good at. Each partner is different and unique, what a previous one liked, the next one does not. What worked before, may not work next time.

    At the same time, it might work. Each couple generally has to 'train' the other on what they like to get really good at things.

    This is why I say I'd rather do it with the same woman a million times, vs. a million women.

  • You don’t need a lot of sex partners to become good in bed. If you study up before hand, stay reasonably physically fit, and generously focus on your partner’s pleasure, everything will work out well. If the first few times with someone are awkward it’s bound to improve with time.

  • Just be rich and then it won't matter. Melania doesn't care that Trump isn't a treat in bed.

  • Listen and talk to your partner. Work and learn together; what you're good at and what she can do to help, and then what she brings into the "bedroom"as her wants and desires, and what she'll show you her many surprises.

    Then maybe compare each other's quirks, kinks, and experience; then it's lay it all out time , GO FOR IT.

    "I Love It When a Good Plan "CUMs Together".

    • Ha Ha Ha

    • Thought you might like that "line", if you were around for the show.

  • I have had good luck with youtube videos for lots of do it yourself projects. Maybe there are some videos that could be helpful.

  • Focus on the partner you are trying to please.

  • Watch plenty of porn , give you ideas.

    • But experience and plenty of it..

  • Honestly, you just listen. Pay attention to what her body physically responds to.

  • Watch pornography.

  • You could read a book.
    I found my dad's when I was a kid.

    First stop... learn the 'come-hither'. :)

    • Ha Ha Ha

  • Not by watching porn. Read up on how to books by noted people. Or here is a novel Idea, discuss it with the person and find out their likes and dislikes.

    • lmao i like how your comment is right next too @cth96190 who said the opposite.

    • Your both 60+ by the way

  • Communication is key. Observe nonverbals; pay attention to what they like doing to you. Enjoy yourself. Be free. Freaky. Sexy. Relax. Just have fun. Love sex don't like sex 😘

  • People who have a high bodycount are not necessarily good in bed since they most likely have many one night stands and I doubt that they care whether their partner have orgasms or not. Foreplay is the most important thing for women. Stimulating the clitoris is main factor to make women have orgasms and for this you only need fingers/tongue (oralsex) and stimulating clitoris ain't difficult lol. But that is my personal opinion

    • ... ain't difficult beside your tongue and fingers being numb of the duration 😄

    • Oh lol. By the way communication is also very important. You as man/woman know your body very well and so just tell your partner what you like.

  • I’d say practice with the one partner that you do have

  • Research and practice ( with the same person, since " without having many partners" is listed ).

  • To become good in bed you first have to know what your partner wants from you and that too without asking her.
    So to achieve that you have to sacrifice your needs and dedicate yourself to read her mind and fulfill her wishes.

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