How hard is it to finger a girl to the point of her cumming/orgasm?
*If you understand the terrain, no.
"I know everybody says to find the g-spot but is it that hard to find?
*No, it is not. Ender her vagina straight in (cut your nails) but let the natural bend of your fingers and her vagina follow them in, up and toward the front. It is only 2-2.5 inches in and on the interior edge of her pubic bone. It is soft and has a slightly roughened texture. The diagram is incorrect. It (the yellow process) is toward the front, not the back, although a companion A-spot is where the yellow process is.
*The red process is the Skene's glands, roughly the female prostate. They are located internal and behind the G-spot. Pressure or rubbing gives a "gotta pee" feeling.
What are your favorite ways to finger or be fingered?
*There are three hot spots that play into fingering.
a. Vaginal opening. It is always very sensitive and was home to her hymen when she had one. The sensitive part of the vagina is from the opening to about 3" in. After that, it is not sensitive.
b. G-spot. Very sensitive all the time. Pressing and massaging it can result in a release of pee, AKA squirting, if she has a full bladder.
c. Glans clitoris (the bud). Any motion or pressure will get it going.
"How hard is it to finger a girl to the point of her cumming/orgasm?
No, it isn't.
"Last question but what are your favorite ways to finger."
*My routine is simple. -Two fingers into her vagina to the G-spot. That arouses the opening and the G-spot.
-Thumb between her labia up on to her clitoris. Gentle in and out motion will get her going. That "come here" motion with the fingers will help.
-And if you and she are up to it, your ring finger can shallowly (one knuckle) enter her anus (use lotion). Synchronize fingers and thumb to the same motion.
-You may actually feel her vagina contract when she cums.
It depends on the woman, and your technique. Don't pay attention to porn videos and what someone might tell you about how to finger a woman. Talk to the woman and ask her what feels good, then do that. Please note that some women hate to be fingered, in which case you find other ways to pleasure her.
Some girls can come from vaginally stimulation, but many girls need clitoral stimulation, with gspot/vaginal stimulation a nice pleasure intensifier.
Generally start with one finger, and yes a gentle "come here" motion, gentle thrusting. It's not about how deep or how big, its do you hit the right spots, do you find pleasing angles, etc. Listen to her, when she starts getting more excited or wet or vocal, keep doing that thing. You can always get rougher if that's what she wants, but it's always best to start off slow and firm, but gentle. Starting off rough/fast can ruin the entire experience, but building up to it naturally can be very good.
AMAZING Give her MHO
Well said. But... do you have chemistry with her? If you have chemistry this is easier. If she's faking any of it you'll both be disappointed. Good luck.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Pretty easy. And its the clit you want to find. The gspot is inside her and should only be reached with dick.
it's not that hard. just don't expect that you can rely on what you learn on the internet. people are different, so communicate with her. ask for feedback if you're not sure and watch her react to what you do. that's more important than anything you may learn from the internet. also if you seem very into it to her, that can make all the difference.
It’s not that hard, actually. It depends on the girl, really, ask her which hand motions feel the best or if she’s moaning a lot, just keep doing that.
the g-spot is pretty easy to find. It kind of feels like a walnut shell with all the ridges. It's not that far in, like a knuckle or so. Once you find it just rub it while making the come hither motion towards her front. It apparetly also feels good to insert your fingers and press downward. Apparently that is the closest to simulating actual sex.
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