How high is too high for body count (sexual)?

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ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

It does not really matter.

i hate the word as it is.

A girl may have boyfriends at school she slept with and at college / university.

a 24 yr old starting sex at 16, could have had sex once each year with a different partner, total say 9 times.

Alternatively a girl may have had 2 long term bfs and had sex 1000’s times with each.

neither is wrong, however people will condemn the first one.

if a guy did it, he may even be mocked for only doing it 9 times, or called a stud.

That’s how fucked up it is.

Then throw racism in to the ring, the later had a black boyfriend with 9 inch cock.

Some of those who were happy with the last girl, will now be ‘that’s a firm no from me’.

it’s all pathetic.

it’s the here and now that’s important, not the past.

DrewJohnson · Accepted Answer

There isn't a "too high" you get to choose not much sex you want. Don't be concerned about what others think of you. If they shame you because you choose to have a lot of partners, that's their issue not yours.

The most important thing is that you own your choices and that you're happy with them.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Does anyone get tired of hearing this question asked 5 times a week besides me? I just love hearing all the "I have sex 5 times a week. But that's not high, is it?" No one seems to ask and no one seems to care as apparently fucking like a rabbit is the "in" thing these days.

Markm3212 · Answer

the only body count that i am worried about is if they go past me e. g. they keep counting after having sex with me.

TheorionMage · Answer

You KNOW there are 'issues' when you have to take a number... "NOW SERVING 'X'..."

MCheetah · Answer

Any number of partners equalling or exceeding a woman's current age.

AndyOh · Answer

The only reason I put that is because as you get older...
First, who cares?
Second, things might happen where you find yourself getting laid a lot as life happens and people and situations change.
Third, though it is not glamorous, and I would opt for a real onetime relationship, I do find myself dropping in and out of relationships as time goes by.

mark000h · Answer

It depends on the amount of time. If a girl is under 30, she shouldn't have been with more than 3 or 4 relationship guys. Less is better. More is kinda slutty.

JCrockett · Answer

Lol, the gender divide on those results. Take notes, ladies.

HighValue · Answer

Any amount of casual sex/hook ups/ONS/friends with benefits is too much.  The number of past partners within a relationship would depend on her age for how many would be too much.

josephinelcajon · Answer

The fact there is a slang term for your sexual encounters shows a BIG problem with society today!

bean2k21 · Answer

No one cares

Danny_dan92 · Answer

It all depends on the age so giving a number outright isn’t that accurate

Lou41 · Answer

It depends how beautiful she is.  If she looks like the Asian woman of my dreams or Jessica Alba, Jennifer Lopez etc. I will make the relationship work no matter what.

beernbacon69 · Answer

it's all relative, if you are talking an 80 year old, maybe 60 is high... who knows and who cares really. If you enjoy having sex, just do it safely and keep on truckin'.