Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, how important is her orgasm to you?
Anonymous
There seems to be a trend among women (I have also had this same experience) where the men that they are with (lovers, husbands, hookups, etc - I've heard it all) won't help them acheive orgasm, don't know how to make them orgasm, or simply don't care if they orgasm. I've had first hand experience with guys not caring if I have an orgasm and their excuses tend to be: it takes too long, they don't know how, it's normal for me not to (which isn't true), they lose interest, there's something from with me, etc. A lot of women I know as a result feel men are selfish and find sex less appealing because of it, but that can't apply to all men obviously. So, guys, how important is it to you for your girl to orgasm during sex? Even if it's a hookup, a girlfriend, your wife, etc?
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(24)More important than mine
It is not a good sex without her having orgasm. Only rarely I do not try to make her orgasm, and that is when she does not want it (she use to have such mood - rough sex and without her orgasm). And I love to feel her orgasming.
My satisfaction always depends on fully pleasing her
I'll take this one in terms of a relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend since I'm not into hookups. I personally think it's important. Will I always focus on it, probably not. Just because I'm human. There's a fine line between being selfish for a guy just getting his rocks off and caring soo much that he always wants his girlfriend to have an orgasm. This can include her faking as her thinking it's his main purpose and that the guy might be hurt if he didn't always make her orgasm.
In the relationship, one would hope that the relationship has the communication in place to be able to talk about things that get each other off.
I'm all about the female orgasm, the girl getting off gets me off so i kinda put her needs above my own, i love the idea of making the girl orgasm countless times
I have no experience haha, but it'd definitely be important to me.
I usually want to get her off first then I do me
I can't have one until she does
Getting the girl off is my favorite part of any sexual experience, I couldn't care less if I got off. I spend a ridiculous amount of time building up her anticipation, using my hands and mouth to explore her body and tease her. I don't actually touch her genitals until she is clawing at the walls, then I spend a great amount of time on the oral/finger play of her vagina. Knowing how to get her to achieve all 3 of the different forms of female orgasm is my favorite, especially with girls who didn't think they could, or believe the bullshit that not all women can. Then and only after she has had multiple intense orgasms, do I get to the sex part. Which also lasts much longer than the average. Usually starting off slow and passionate, and if she wants, more aggressive and animal. (BUT, I never inflict pain as a means of getting a reaction out of a female, I think guys who have to choke or hit or cause pain to get a reaction are just really horrible at sex.)
Tbh its more important than mine